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Lanny
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I don't know what to say... seems like I feel inner desire to become a father but I don't know how to implement it into life and with whom to implement it... i don't know whether it is allowed to become a single gay parent... I don't have constant partner now and I understand that the period of dating and creating a family will take a few years, so I will miss a few years more. Now I have some kind of strange and mixed feelings, don't know where to move.

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Mark
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I understand you very well. I do not have a partner now too, but I have feelings like I am ready for creating a family. I want to have a child, a warm home, I just need it. Of course I imagine myself with a partner in my best dreams about family, but I also had thoughts about adopting a child if I do not find anyone special. I tried to find something about adopting by one gay-parent, but I have not found anything yet. Is it possible at all?

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Alex
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There are no rules when to become father and when it is a good time, so you will not miss anything if you try to find a partner. From the other hand I understand you, but still advice you to think about all these responsibilities and childcare again, because being a lonely father is much more difficult when you have no one to share everything with. If you decide for sure, I would just wish you good luck :)

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Don
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Have you tried to learn information about laws. is it allowed at all to be a lonely father in your country? It is not everywhere allowed, so you should better find out anything about it at first.

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Lanny
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If you are sure about your decission and really feel you are ready for parenting, for becoming the only father for a child and raising him alone, you should not wait and start the process and I am sure you will create a full family finding a loving and reliable partner with time.

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Billy-Bob
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yes, it's possible to become a single father. but here we have a new question: can you alone, without any help (especially financial) grow-up a child. it's very difficult for two adult person, but for one it's mega difficult!

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Lanny
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you should understand that it is easier to raise a child when you have a partner you can relay on. there will be different situations when you will need help form someone. maybe it i worth to wait till the moment you will find the one with whom you will be able to raise a child.

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Richard
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It is definitely better to be a single father if you have an inner desire for it than to create relationships just because you think that it is impossible to raise a child alone. What is really impossible is to raise a child in a family with no love. To create a family with a person and to bring up children together you should love him first of all. And he should love you too and have the same strong desire to bring up a child as you. But if there is no such person, then it is not a real family your future child deserves. But everything can happen, work for future parenting and don't lose faith in love

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Lanny
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I bet you begin to love children more and more. You start noticing the little things about children, and they make you smile. The kids playing in the aisle at the supermarket have been seriously distracting you from your shopping duties. You note crib and baby-monitor prices at the hardware store without thinking. You enjoy and look forward to spending time with your friend's baby, or your nephew, more than ever. You don't mind their crying and whining as much as you used to, and so on. Chances are you want a kid. That's good if yes, but as an individual, and before making yourself responsible for another human being's life, make sure you are fulfilling your own expectations out of life. For example, if you want to be successful professionally, then attain financial stability first. Once you have a strong, loving relationship with a lady, the decision to bring a child into the world becomes simpler.

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Steve
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I think that becoming a father is a very important and responsible step in your life, you should be fully confident that you will give your child everything the best. I suppose that upbringing of a child is a very complicated thing when there are two parents, but if there is one parent it will be very, very difficult. But, on the other hand, they say "if you see the aim you should not see any obstacles", if you are ready that you will cope with all negative circumstances and difficulties it is worth of trying. With time you will find a loving man and inderstand that raising children is the happiest thing in life!

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Lanny
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You know I understand you very well.
I do not have a partner now too, but I have feelings like I am ready for creating a family. I want to have a child, a warm home, I just need it. Of course I imagine myself with a partner in my best dreams about family, but I also had thoughts about adopting a child if I do not find anyone special. I tried to find something about adopting by one gay-parent, but I have not found anything yet. Is it possible at all?

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