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Max
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Is it important for you to get married officially?

Housing assistance, and veterans', Social Security, and Supplemental Security benefits can both now be calculated based on your gay spouse's income—so if your gay spouse makes a lot of money you can expect to receive less in benefits. (The Supplementary Nutrition Assistance Program, calculated by household metrics, won't change.) If your gay spouse is an employee of the federal government, you are now eligible for health benefits. (It is also now a federal crime to threaten or kill you in order to influence your gay fed spouse!) (On the other hand you also cannot accept expensive gifts from foreign governments.) Depending on your employer, or the state you live in (all civil union-recognizing states except Nevada require spousal coverage), you may already have insurance through your gay spouse, in which case, congratulations! It is now treated as a tax-free benefit. All these benefits are very useful for both of you!

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Robb
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Is it important for you to get married officially?

I got married really young (at 18), and stayed married for 10 years. Looking back now, with some life experience under my belt, it was actually , for the most part, and most of the time, a pretty good marriage. We truly just 'grew apart', or possibly, 'grew up' and away from each other.Even though I haven't had contact with him for a couple of years, a part of me still loves him and always will. I will always wish him well. He is a good, decent man, and I acknowledge that we may have taken each other's love for granted in the end. Another case of me not knowing what I had until it was gone. Now, years after the divorce, I can say that if I were ever to marry again, it would only be with a man that I consider a true friend, someone I trust, respect, love. If I am ever blessed to find that, then yes I would marry again, for the companionship and security that is possible with a good marriage.

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John
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Is it important for you to get married officially?

I live with my boyfriend for five years. We love each other and if it is possible to get married in our country we would like to do this. We can not. But still i think that to get married officially is very important. We can only dream about it. Marrige is the kind of demonstration of love. When you are married you have warrant of love and that your soulmate will not leave you. I love my man and know for sure that i want to live with him all my life. He also thinks that marrige is a good idea and he support me in my decision to get married one day. Marrige is cool. I want to be able to get marrige at some time. But i think it will be not in our country. But if it be here i will be the happiest person in the universe.

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John
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Is it important for you to get married officially?

As for me I dreamed of having with my partner official marriage for our relationship. But it has a serious importance. I think if you love someone, the main thing to keep doing it! Marriage - it's just an event. This is an additional paper that you love each other! So it does not have such serious importance. The main thing to be together forever! The main thing to understand each other in all situations. So we must continue to live and enjoy our lives together. In this way we will all get a successful life! In addition, we want to have a complete family. So maybe soon we will look for ways to have our baby. We do not have enough money for a wedding that we want. But we can ensure the life of our child.

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Benny
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Is it important for you to get married officially?

no it is not important for me at all. i am not married and i am even not sure whether i love my boyfriend. but when people start to talk the importance of marriage i just start laughing, i do not understand such people who are eager to marry and just do not see another variant of their life. i think that i will not marry in the future unless my future husband will want it. i think that marriage can ruin the love and ruin the relations that you have built for so long. and for what? i do not see the purpose of it. for me it is not important for me, i can live with the person for whole my life and do not have the marriage. i do not want to make my relations harder.

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John
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Is it important for you to get married officially?

For us this is not important at all and never was or will be.I know alotta guys wants to get married and all,but I think that's just an ode to the days of the past.It's a modern world we are all live in,and it is not has to be all papered up.What is that paper gives you?What,you gonna love your partner more cause of that?That's ridiculous,man.But,as they say,for whom how. :lol: We never truly felt the need-neither me,nor my partner Stevn-and we live all happy and stuff for almost two years now in a civil marriage,and it's all good,believe me.The feelings you feel towards your partner defines your relationship and vice versa-and not some sh*tty little piece of paper.But it is for us that way-yours might differ. ;)

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John
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Is it important for you to get married officially?

You know of course I dreamed of having with my partner official marriage for our relationship. But it has a serious importance. I think if you love someone, the main thing to keep doing it! Marriage - it's just an event. This is an additional paper that you love each other! So it does not have such serious importance. The main thing to be together forever! The main thing to understand each other in all situations. So we must continue to live and enjoy our lives together. In this way we will all get a successful life! In addition, we want to have a complete family. So maybe soon we will look for ways to have our baby. We do not have enough money for a wedding that we want. But we can ensure the life of our child. So we'll work on these even without an official marriage.

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Karl
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good evening my friends. I think in modern world it doesn't matter, do you official married or not. Maybe for some organisation, it will be important, i don't know for what, but it can be. As for me, i don't care get we married official or not. For me is more important, that we love each other. That we are comfortable together, that we decided to be the family.

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 I dreamed of having with my partner official marriage for our relationship. But it has a serious importance. I think if you love someone, the main thing to keep doing it! Marriage - it's just an event. This is an additional paper that you love each other! So it does not have such serious importance. The main thing to be together forever! The main thing to understand each other in all situations. So we must continue to live and enjoy our lives together. In this way we will all get a successful life! In addition, we want to have a complete family. So maybe soon we will look for ways to have our baby. We do not have enough money for a wedding that we want. But we can ensure the life of our child. So we'll work on these even without an official marriage

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