As the matter of fact, in marriage, one of the most common causes of fights is the topic of sex. While there is a whole host of intimacy issues that couples fight about, the most common disagreement occurs over how often sex is (or isn't) happening. I know that sex is important. Sex is something you share with your partner that you don't share with anyone else. Sure, you can talk to your spouse about what a rotten day you had at work or how you feel inadequate as a parent, but you can also talk to your friends or parents about those things. You can't have sex with anyone besides your spouse, however. As a result, intimacy truly sets you and your partner apart as a couple. If you're not being close to your partner in this way, the two of you may become less like a couple and more like roommates.
There are many points of view on this situation.
I enjoy it very much, but not just with anyone, but with someone I like. I do not say about love, but attraction and passion, sparkles between us is needed. I would prefer to enjoy mutual desire, passion, but not just find someone for one night, just to get satisfaction.
I need a bit more. so I just tried to say that I would not get crazy if I do not find someone I like for some time. I would wait.
As for me, I may staying alone without sex for very long period. I am a man, and I understand that my body is needed it, but I prefer being alone, and satisfying myself, than fucking every person who is meeting on my way just for momentary pleasure, but without love.
You know to those who said that guys will answer sex without love, I'm a guy and I choose LOVE WITHOUT SEX.Love is the most important thing in my eyes. I need love but I want sex. Need is more important than want.I could have sex without love for days at end but I'll eventually get bored.
But I'll never get bored with having love every second of my life.Like someone said, I can pleasure myself anytime anywhere ;) lolthat's why I choose love over sex. So can`t make it withou feelings I even can`t excite if I don`t love the person. I think people who do it without love are animals. sorry if I sound rude.
You know I also had something like this in my life. But you can always find a better way for you on your own. “We’re too old for sex” or “I can’t have intercourse any longer.” Mistaken beliefs such as an age cut off for sexual activity or that sex depends on erections and naturally lubricated vaginas eliminates much joy from an individual’s life.
All humans are sexual creatures and sexual expression takes many forms. Hearing this from a figure of authority like a physician or a marriage counselor can often make the difference. “We’ve just fallen out of the habit”. This happens more often than you might think.
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