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Harry
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Joined: 09/02/2016 - 06:11
Is it worth it

Hello everybody! I want to start talking about a serious issue, with which each of us can meet, when we want something serious in our life. I want to talk about the baby. Of course, many would say that any questions I can ask here ... But anyway, I want to talk a little bit about the other thing. I'd like to ask anyone who Dad already, or just planning to become a father in the near future. I'm really interested to hear the opinion of every one of you. Is it worth it? Should I have a baby? I just see that it's really expensive. In addition, it brings more responsibility ... and I do not know ... I just want to enjoy life with my partner.

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Revardiny
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:07
Is it worth it

I think you're really right in this matter. But I also think that each of us can have his own answer to this question. First of all we must understand that a child can bring something new and different in our lives. A child can radically change us and our character. I've also seen really happy fathers who had some doubts as to whether they should have a child. Believe me, this is quite a silly question, because a child can make your life much better. You can enjoy while taking care of him. And you can give your child everything you did not had in your childhood.

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Vincent
Last seen: 1 year 4 months ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:02
Is it worth it

I believe that after a while you will not have the need to ask questions like someone. In addition, I also think that there is no need at all to ask someone about these things. Because the answer is always obvious. First of all, I understand that you would like to spend your life enjoying time with your partner. But maybe you just have not thought about your old age? Who will assist you when you and your partner will become old? Who will support you mentally and physically, when you need it in old age? I think that you're just not thinking about the future. So you're still not sure.

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Barboro
Last seen: 1 year 3 months ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:03
Is it worth it

I think we just have to understand some things about our life. To be honest, I just do not see the point in our life, if you do not want to have a child. It is really important for any couple that wants to create something serious. You must understand that your child - this is your heir. He is the only one who will remember you even when you die. It is the only person who will help you in old age. But in any case, it all depends on you. It depends on your care and love for your child. Therefore, you should understand all of these things anyway. And if you just enjoy your life, time passes very quickly, and you will regret it after a while.

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Harry
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Joined: 09/02/2016 - 06:11
Is it worth it

It seems to me that the child - this is the best that we can have in this world. When I watch TV and I see all the problems in our lives every day, I lose the meaning of life completely. But when I realize that I have a child - it gives joy in the desire to continue my life. Believe me, when you will see this innocent creature, you will realize how much you were wrong in your words. Also you say that it is quite expensive to have a child. You just have to think that we live a very short life. And free money - it's nothing after your death. So I do not think you have to feel sorry for money for such things.

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Frank
Last seen: 1 year 7 months ago
Joined: 07/08/2016 - 15:20
Is it worth it

Just try to imagine being the father. I think that all of this can help you understand why your words for you - this is the biggest mistake in your life. In addition I want to answer your question. We really need to have a child. Each happy couple that understands that they want to have a good family - need to have a child. This is an opportunity to continue your race. In addition, it is able to leave some sort of legacy in this world. You can pass your life for your child, or to try to make the life of your baby is much better than you had. In any case, it's something amazing when you become a father. This is something completely perfect in your life! You will understand this with time.

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Milton
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:04
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I think you're just still afraid that you can not deal with these things in your life. Believe me, there is nothing supernatural. In addition, I also believe that you can be a very good and caring response to your child. You just do not be afraid of such things. I also think. you have to try. Maybe in order to understand all of these things, you can simply your friends to help you in this. You can talk to them about their feelings and changes in life, when they got a child in their family. I think you will be surprised when you differentiate amongst their happy faces.

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Johnson
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:04
Is it worth it

I also see some strange fear in your words about the child. I think you have to try to cope with your fears about it. In addition, I also believe that you can always just try you in the role of father. You can come to your friends who already have a child and ask them to help you figure it all out. They can simply show all that you have to do to take care of your unborn child. In addition, it will also help you understand your responsibility and many other things. But I want to warn you, there is nothing unusual or dangerous. You just have to relax and have fun thanks to all that you do.

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Ismual
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:04
Is it worth it

I am sure that the child can really bring a lot of joy in your life. In addition, I also think that it can change you for the better. Sometimes we can be afraid of something that we still do not even know. I think it is very suitable for you. Because you're afraid of things that you still have not tried it in your life. I do not know, maybe you're just selfish, or you are afraid to lose the attention of your partner. But in any case I see any fear in your question as well. Believe me, the child - is something magical that will only bring joy and laughter into your life.

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Ivaniko
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:05
Is it worth it

I see so many opinions about the child. In addition, I also think that it is completely normal - to have some doubts. I think that each of us can have some doubts and it is a choice for each of us. I will not say that you have to have a child or something else. But in any case, it should be considered very serious choice. Because if you decide you do not want to have a child, you'll live as you wish. And no one has the right to dictate how you should spend your life. I just want to say that you have to understand that child - it's positive that you can see in this life.

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Alfronto
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:05
Is it worth it

To be honest I do not see anything negative that could happen to you because of the child. Believe me, it's really important to understand that a child will not bring something bad in your life. Many couples dream of having a child really, but they can not for some reason. In addition, I also suggest you read some literature about this, that you understand all of these things a little bit better, and more. Maybe you're just afraid to get more responsibility now, I do not know. But I am sure that all this is absolutely normal things. And you need not worry about it.

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