I am sure that even if you have some doubt when you're going to get your child - you will lose your doubts quickly. Believe me, the child can not bring something bad in your life. I think that a child can only bring positive things in your life. In addition, of course, maybe you're afraid that at first it will be difficult to take care of the baby and wake up every time he cries. But in any case, you'll get used to things like that. And all this is only temporary. You must understand this. Just you still do not think about all the positive things that you will receive in your life.
I think that first of all you have to correctly assess the situation. Maybe you should talk to your partner about it. Perhaps he will tell you some things that you still do not know or just do not understand about children. In addition, I also think that you have to consult with him. Because if you do not want to have a baby, but your partner really wants to have a baby - you both can have some problems in your relationship. Therefore, you should discuss the matter together and make a decision. In any case, I hope that your partner will be able to explain to you, that's fine - to be a father.
In any case, each of us has his personal choice. And we should not try to impose our view for some other guy. I think that each of us just have to understand what it really needs in this life. In addition, I suggest you try to feel the role of the father. I advise you to come to your friends who already have a child and try to help your friends take care of their children. In this way you can try you in the role of father. But you should also remember that you will have a completely different attitude to your own child. Much better and warmer!
I think that first of all you just have to solve this problem inside your head. I think you have to think and find the reason for your fears. Maybe you're really worried that you will not receive enough attention from your partner. Or maybe you're just worried that you will receive some financial problems. And all this can be reflected on your family and the child. Or maybe you're worried about the money that you have to find for surrogacy. I do not know what could be the reason for you. But I advise you to think about it and find the answer.
Each of us can be a little afraid of getting some additional responsibility. But I think it's just our life. And we need to understand it. We also need to understand all of these things and believe that we can deal with most of the problems in our lives. So I think that the decision of the child should not come quickly. But in any case I do not see any reason to have a negative attitude towards this issue. I also think that you can just spend a little time to check out all the pros and cons of having a baby. I think you have to change your opinion.
All depends on you and your decision. In any case, if you decide to spend your life without a child, you will do it. It all depends on your desire. From time to time we just look at our friends or other families and try to copy them. But I do not think it can be a good idea. Each of us is unique in his interests and views on our world. So you just have to analyze the situation. I can say that it's worth it to have a child in any way. I dream of a baby now. And I hope that soon my dream will become a reality. My partner and I are planning to have a child soon.
What could be better than this sweet children's laughter in your house? I just think that you took your decision too quickly. In addition, I also think that you should not rush. I agree that you should think very well about this question and analyze everything that you think is important in this. In any case, just imagine when you walk down the street with your little guy. It is something amazing. Just imagine how he is smiling to you, and you enjoy a walk with him. I think that a child can make our life much brighter and more fun. Do not give up the opportunity.
The baby - it's always something special for each family and for each pair. It is something amazing and magical. I always enjoy when I hear children's laughter. In addition, I think that the children's joy and laughter of children - this is the best music in our world. I can not say enough about the feelings that are characteristic for you, if you become a father. But in any case I am sure that you will feel inspired. I am sure that you will nasalzhdatsya every minute with your child, if you are not selfish course. In any case, I think you should think about this issue is really serious, because it has to be your decision.
I think that to become a father - is not just a great opportunity to improve your life, it is a special privilege for the guys who understand the meaning of our life. In addition, to be honest, I started to think philosophically some thoughts about it after a while. I just know that we can live and enjoy our lives. We're getting older every year. And we are beginning to get less pleasure from each day that we live in this world. Your family and your child - this is what will bring you pleasure at any age. These are people who are close to you even when you feel really bad.
In my opinion you're really right in this matter. But I also think that each of us can have his own answer to this question. First of all we must understand that a child can bring something new and different in our lives. A child can radically change us and our character. I've also seen really happy fathers who had some doubts as to whether they should have a child. Believe me, this is quite a silly question, because a child can make your life much better. You can enjoy while taking care of him. And you can give your child everything you did not had in your childhood.
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