You know all depends on you and your decision. In any case, if you decide to spend your life without a child, you will do it. It all depends on your desire. From time to time we just look at our friends or other families and try to copy them. But I do not think it can be a good idea. Each of us is unique in his interests and views on our world. So you just have to analyze the situation. I can say that it's worth it to have a child in any way. I dream of a baby now. And I hope that soon my dream will become a reality. My partner and I are planning to have a child soon.
It is not worth for you, if you are not ready for it, and moreover if you have no desire to be a parent. It is not so bad as somebody may think of it, I mean your desire to live for yourself. But you may loose your chance to be happy in other sphere of your life, and it may be too late in the future.
If you are ready to change your life for the better-and it's the best way to change it globally-than it is surely worth it,every little thing of it.But remember-you have to FEEL ready and KNOW what exactly can you give to a child,and it better be all good,you know? ;) You have to be 100% confident about your decision-there can be no way back later,when the child will live with you.Weigh all the possibilities for yourself,cause something you will definitely lose (like a lot of your free time),but there's a lot you will also get-and it'll change your ways forever. ;)
of course every person has his own opinion on it and it is very difficult to sum it up. for some people it is really worth it and child is the sense of their life while others do not see the happiness in it. but i think that not all people really need children in order to feel happy, there are many he do not need children at all. i am supporter of the so called childfree organisation. i do not want to have children but i really appreciate those who feel ready for it, because it is very difficult to do it. yu are a brave and strong person.
Children are like a ray of light. They bring into our lives a lot of fun and smiles. As soon as they do to our lives become rich and amazing. They themselves come up with stories of fairy tales, sing and dance their elaborate dances. Before you know how, through their fantasies you become the superhero, the chanterelles or little fairy, musketeers, princess and still many heroes, as if descended from the pages of books. And you yourself become one of these characters, you rejoice with them and try to bring in as much as it is a celebration of magic and miracles possible. It's always a lot of positives in your life!
Who else but the children bring into our lives paint and smile! Circus performance and any other cause so much excitement that you start with the children to enjoy life, to see something new and beautiful for a long time in the "forgotten". Every day, lived around children, it becomes unforgettable. They are like sponges absorbing everything that we presented to them, be it poetry or stories, or anything else, they learn to sculpt, carve, grow and mature. And so I want to hold them in this beautiful place as "childhood". I think that each of us should have a baby.
I am sure that every family can tell you a lot about their children. And they will first of all say how happy they are to have their children. I think that every family should have a child. It does not matter when. But I think that the complete family can not exist without children. That's what brings joy into our lives and hope. It's something special, that allows us to think that the world is much better than we can imagine. I think that our children can make our lives a hundred times better than what we have. And it's always fun to watch them.
As for me I think you're really right in this matter. But I also think that each of us can have his own answer to this question. First of all we must understand that a child can bring something new and different in our lives.
A child can radically change us and our character. I've also seen really happy fathers who had some doubts as to whether they should have a child. Believe me, this is quite a silly question, because a child can make your life much better. You can enjoy while taking care of him. And you can give your child everything you did not had in your childhood.
You know it seems to me that the child - this is the best that we can have in this world. When I watch TV and I see all the problems in our lives every day, I lose the meaning of life completely. But when I realize that I have a child - it gives joy in the desire to continue my life. Believe me, when you will see this innocent creature, you will realize how much you were wrong in your words.
Also you say that it is quite expensive to have a child. You just have to think that we live a very short life. And free money - it's nothing after your death. So I do not think you have to feel sorry for money for such things.
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