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Nill
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Not created to be a father

Do you think that all men can be good fathers or there are those who were created not for parenting and they would never become a good dad even if they get a child somehow? Is it something programmed or something you get with time?

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Nill
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not all of us can be fathers... not all can become biological fathers due to some problems with health and some can't because their character and nature. think we hit it with time, world and our world acception determine such things.

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Lanny
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rather disputable question... I even don't know what to say. But if to take into consideration that not all men become fathers we can say that not all of us should and want become fathers. There are one who really wants this and another one who is pretty indifferent to parenthood.

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Nill
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I am sure that not all men can be good fathers. Even if he says he wants to become father, even if he becomes father, it does not mean he would be good, doing his best to raise a good person, to show his love and rules, to make his child respect him.

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Alex
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Not created to be a father

Sometimes it depends on age and the feeling that you want to be a father, that you are ready to take this responsibility and what is more important to enjoy it. Sometimes this understanding will never come, a person just can not be a father, can not be responsible for someone else or just do not want to be.

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Don
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It is a difficult question, because seems like you never know for sure before you become father, but when you have a child it becomes too late to understand that it is not for you. I just have such an example. My ex classmate got married when he was 20, he always posessed like he is family oriented, so in love with her wife, dreaming about having a baby. His wife was waiting till she finish studying and refused all his propositions about having a child sooner. He said it is his dream, his sense of life. She got pregnant, he was the happiest man ever, she gave birth to a child, he understood he was wrong, he is not ready. The child was 2 weeks old when he went away and decided to choose another life- no responsibilities, no children, no stress, just having fun. I was wondering if he was really thinking that he needs this baby or just talking and could he ever become a good father after such a story...even with time...hardly believe.

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Billy-Bob
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think each person has hisown way in life and his own mission. in this mission not every man should be a father. it's true that not everyone is created to become a father. it's normal that you understand that you don't want or can't and not get child

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Nill
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If the father is rude to other family members, never holding back his emotions, about me using bad words, absolutely nothing to do at home, in the future he will probably be sorely disappointed by the behavior of his grown-up son. Because the child will copy what you saw in the family.No comments, punishments, incentives, and other educational methods do not have such a powerful force, as an example of behavior.If the father is a person with good manners and solid principles of life, well he will be able to raise my son without any additional methods.

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Lanny
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Everyone is created to continue our generation. You are just not ready and you think that it will last forever but one day you will open your eyes and understand thatr you are ready and you want to be a father. i think it is a deal where we should hurry up. If you feel that you need to have fun some more time you are welcome, it is really not a good time to have children and it is great that you understand and admit it. So, just give yourself some time ))))

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Nill
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Childbirth is like watching a film after having read too many advance reviews. You have been told about the part where you will scream and the bit where you will weep, so it comes loaded with expectations. From a father's point of view, giving birth resembles Keith Richard's description of being on tour: it is mostly waiting around. Men should be prepared to see their partners enduring a pain no man can comprehend and to make difficult decisions on their behalf.To the man, the baby remains an abstract right up until it pops out. As a result, men are less prepared for it than women. It also means there is the delightful surprise of finding out that not only are things not so terrible, but also they can be rather wonderful.However much your life changes, though, you have to accept that you have become the person who once annoyed you so much: the new parent on the plane with the baby everyone is praying won't start screaming, the man pushing the tank-like buggy along the crowded pavement, the dad who can't resist boring his friends with stories about the little love.

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Richard
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Having a genetic connection with a child is not enough to be called a parent of this child, I think. Each of us can have sex (if we talk about straight men) or give his sperm to be used for conception a child (as for gay men), but it does not mean that we are already good parents. We are not born them, we become them. And as for those who think that they are not created to be fathers, it is really better for them not to have children if they think so. Because having a child is a serious step and if you have no willing for it personally and do it just not to differ from others, your child will understand it and he or she will suffer because of lack of your love.

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