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Optimist or pessimist?

Optimism is an Outlook on life, other people and the world as a whole only from a positive point of view. Opposite him is pessimism, which is the negative views on reality. Pessimists believe that bad things are, and no better.The youth of the soul and body. Optimists generally look and feel younger than their own age. This is because it makes no sense to consider the past year and be reminded of past failures. An optimist with confidence and hope looks forward to the future, expecting only the best. Typically, the pessimists are not successful people, because it eats them from the inside, uncertainty about the future, different fears, some dissatisfaction

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Optimist or pessimist?

Well..Optimist: always hopes for and sees the best in things.Pessimist: always fears and sees the worst of a situation.Realist: hopes for the best but prepares for the worst.I would rather than all be an optimist. When you're optimist everything is good and you always feel good because you see everything as good. When you're a pessimist everything is, feels, and seems bad. When you're a realist your to sucked into what is "real" apparently. Though you could say that I'm also a realist because I know what real is and it isn't what you see with your eyes. Its what you feel with your heart.

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I am trying to be optimistic, because when we can't change the situation, we can change our attitude to it and it would be easier to go through all troubles and to fight against all stresses not to let them destroy our souls and bodies. Don't you know how harmful stresses are? They influence on every organ of our body and cause all the possible illnesses and complicate that diseases which we have already. So, we need to think positively to be happy and healthy, I know that it is not always easy to find positive sides in our troubles and to get lessons instead of falling in despair, but we need to learn how to do it.

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Optimist or pessimist?

I believe that no matter what,we must always be optimistic.Because that's easier to live))))If in our life happens that's not good, optimists and pessimists behave differently. ;) ;) ;) Pessimists tend to self-flagellate, and for people of this mindset every mistake and some incident in their life is a disaster. Pessimists tend to self-flagellate, which leads to another problem. Such people life is just stress, but if stress, then shattered nerves, weak heart, high blood pressure. Optimists rather try to see everything positive. They are not as prone to self-flagellation as pessimists. But this does not mean that they do not learn lessons from the mistakes, on the contrary, is extracted and it is their positive attitude allows them to conclude that another time they wouldn't do that.

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Optimist or pessimist?

Pessimists – it's the complete opposite of optimistic. The majority of the time they think and talk about something you don't want. They think about people that they don't like, and about the problems that they have currently or have had in the past. Especially as often they think, who would be blamed for what happens to them. And the more they think about it, the angrier and nedobrojelatelniye become. The faster they attract into your life those things that you fear.Optimists understand that in most cases, negative attitudes are not groundless and devoid of common sense. They can in time to stop the endless scrolling of these "voice messages" in his brain. Take back the power over internal voice, at the behest of where you live.

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Optimist or pessimist?

[quote="Ton" post=2422]Pessimists – it's the complete opposite of optimistic. The majority of the time they think and talk about something you don't want. They think about people that they don't like, and about the problems that they have currently or have had in the past. Especially as often they think, who would be blamed for what happens to them. And the more they think about it, the angrier and nedobrojelatelniye become. The faster they attract into your life those things that you fear.Optimists understand that in most cases, negative attitudes are not groundless and devoid of common sense. They can in time to stop the endless scrolling of these "voice messages" in his brain. Take back the power over internal voice, at the behest of where you live.[/quote]
I completely agree with you. Pessimists always focus on negative, so even if something pleasant happens to them, they usually never enjoy it. They are never satisfied with what they have and never grateful for anything. It is easier for them to find a million disadvantages in every little thing which happens to them instead of thanking for it. But the main problem of pessimists is that they spread their pessimism all around. That's why they usually have no friends and this fact makes their depression and unsatisfaction of life much deeper. I am sorry about them.

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Optimist or pessimist?

From the point of view of psychology, optimism is one of the features of thinking, a habit that you either will develop and this will greatly increase your chances of success, or allows himself to sink into a pit of pessimism and failure. Optimism is one of the primary positive traits of human nature. But its origins lie more in the presence of such qualities as sense of humor, the ability to overcome fear, the ability to feel a sense of satisfaction, positive thinking, flexibility, enthusiasm, faith and determination. :lol: :lol: :lol:
Thus, optimism is an important component of a healthy lifestyle, because a person can avoid health problems and to achieve success in life.

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The main negative pessimistic intolerance. An optimist finds usually contact with the pessimist, these people very hard to communicate.
Here is an example of the situations and behavior of people with different views on things. The student has scheduled the exam on a subject that it is difficult is given. But be discouraged there is no reason, for the optimist, of course. There is nothing better than the conquest of the vertex of knowledge!
The hairdresser did your hair too short? But now the hairstyle has gained novelty. Makeovers are all going to benefit.The real mystery to be solved by each person: why think pessimistically? Annoys will cause such sad thoughts. Life consists of different moments, both good and bad. Don't waste your precious nerves on trifles!

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Optimists explain positive events as having happened because of them (internal). They also see them as evidence that more positive things will happen in the future (stable), and in other areas of their lives (global). Conversely, they see negative events as not being their fault (external). They also see them as being flukes (isolated) that have nothing to do with other areas of their lives or future events (local). For example, if an optimist gets a promotion, she will likely believe it’s because she’s good at her job and will receive more benefits and promotion in the future. If she’s passed over for the promotion, it’s likely because she was having an off-month because of extenuating circumstances, but will do better in the future. Pessimists think in the opposite way. They believe that negative events are caused by them (internal). They believe that one mistake means more will come (stable), and mistakes in other areas of life are inevitable (global), because they are the cause. They see positive events as flukes (local) that are caused by things outside their control (external) and probably won’t happen again (unstable). A pessimist would see a promotion as a lucky event that probably won’t happen again, and may even worry that she’ll now be under more scrutiny. Being passed over for promotion would probably be explained as not being skilled enough. Personally I estimate myself as being an optimist, because I usually view a lot of different things only in a positive way, and consequently it gives its positive results)

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I am an optimist))))Optimism has a positive effect on healthPsychologists use the term "cognitive reconstruction" to describe our ability to assess the situation from different points of view. In difficult times and under difficult circumstances, sometimes it is useful to look at what is happening from a different angle, for example to see the funny and lighter side of their problems. Of course, in some cases, appropriate restraint and solemnity, but more often we treat ourselves and life too seriously, missing all the comical and funny. :silly: :silly: :silly:

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