WHat do you think about paid sex? Have you ever tried it and why do people ready to pay for sex instead of find someone for free, if we can say so? what do you think about it?
No I have never had an idea to try it and I hope I will never need it. I always thought it is important to have mutual desire, attraction and to make it because you both want to have sex, to make love, but not because you paid someone to join you. It is strange for me, really strange and even weird.
I agree with you. It is better for me to stay alone rather then to make someone be with me because of money. This thought would not give me chance to relax. It is not for me, that is why I asked to find those people who can explain me their intentions and thoughts when they pay someone for sex. I am really interested.
I can understand those who sell sex. It is money. Rather quick and big, I would not say easy, because I do not think it is something easy to do. But anyway, their reasons are understandable, but those who buy...I do not know. Maybe they want to have new impressions, to enjoy someone really experienced and ready for everything. Maybe they have lack of emotions and passion in their life.
Once I asked my friend, who paid for sex. he was married and had a wonderful family, but he still needed something new and was ready to pay to get it. He said that he need emotions, new impressions and he does not want to have lover, because he loves his wife, he do not need relationships anymore, but he needs emotions to make his family union stronger. I do not understand such explanations. why not to create emotions together with your wife, to try something new?
That is why it is a secret for me too...I do not know the reasons to pay for sex.
[quote="Alex" post=792]Once I asked my friend, who paid for sex. he was married and had a wonderful family, but he still needed something new and was ready to pay to get it. He said that he need emotions, new impressions and he does not want to have lover, because he loves his wife, he do not need relationships anymore, but he needs emotions to make his family union stronger. I do not understand such explanations. why not to create emotions together with your wife, to try something new?
That is why it is a secret for me too...I do not know the reasons to pay for sex.[/quote]
Oh, I do not think it is really sincere explanation. He tries to convince you that he is doing it for making his family stronger. Would he agree his wife to do the same to make their family even more strong and wonderful ? Hardly believe it possible/ Maybe it is just an addiction...I do not know. Maybe just a desire to get what he want and not to search for someone.
Really, good reason to pay for sex :) But I do not believe it is really what he thinks. Maybe he even believe in his explanation, I do not know. He wants to look better in his own eyes and your eyes too. That is why he found out such a story of making his family stronger :)
No,I have never used such services and probably won't ever.I think it's very dangerous in the first place.And secondly, it is very messy for me,I would rather be alone ,than to use these insecure services :ohmy: :ohmy: :ohmy:
Oh, I agree with you, being alone looks more attractive for me, then paying someone to share these pleasures with me. I think it would not let me relax the idea that it is his work, but not something he really wants to do with me. It is so strange as for me.
to me sex for free is some kind of relationships. paid sex requires little efforts and no responsibilities. those who have money and don't want reltionships can afford this kind of relationships for money. i don't think it is bad ao not normal.
I have never paid for sex and I think it shoul be by love, but if you only want to have pleasure so why not.. There's no harm in paying for it, but it won't help your overall issue, which is pursuing a real relationship with a real boy.You'd think it'll make you more relaxed/experienced, but it won't.
Hookers and strippers are paid to act interested, so they do. It's just delaying the inevitable: you have to figure out how to talk to real man...but if you just want a one night stand, go to clubs and bars etc to find a boy who is looking for one as well. You should have more self respect than to pay for it, and at least you will both be doing it for the same reason.
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