I try to empathize with them, I try not to judge, I try to put myself in their shoes, I really try. But I can't. Everytime I read a story about someone who tries to destigmatize prostitution and encorages other men to try it, I can't help but think bad of them. I think I could never be with someone who've paid to use a random man's body. I can understand if he had a moment of weakness, but a regular who is proud of it? No. Maybe I'm being too naïve, or too judgmental, I don't know.
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" There is no shame in paying for it. It's the oldest profession in the world. Look at it this way- by the time you ask a real girl out on a date and you take her out to a movie and then a nice restaurant and then go to the club and pay for a $20 cover charge and $20 for parking and then have a few $8 drinks at the club, the date will end up costing almost $400 anyways! And there is no guarantee you will end up getting any at the end of the date, if you know what I mean. At least when you pay $400 for a call girl, you know you are guaranteed to get some! And she won't whine or have an attitude or anything like that. She'll be as pleasant as you want her to be for an hour because it is her job and she will want your business again. You'll get sex AND she'll be nice to you! Not such a bad deal when you really look at it."
I think that people who pay for sex have a big lack of self-confidence and very bad opinion about themselves. They don't love themselves and don't respect themselves at all if they think that they are unable to attract anybody, that nobody will ever want to be with them, to love them and to bring them pleasure (in part by means of sex, but not only) unless they pay some money for it. I am not judging these people, I am simply sorry about them, because they don't understrand that they deserve more than just having sex for money. We all deserve to be loved.
It took me a while to pick the partner I wanted and the whole experience felt a bit like having the oil changed on my car – it was quick, it was pedestrian and I really didn't feel much.I didn't feel any guilt about it – just vague disappointment that it was rubbish sex with a person who I don't think really wanted to be there. I used a condom – I thought it would be insane not to, and I didn't have a choice anyway. She told me she would never have had sex without one.It was only when I moved in with my current partner that I felt guilty about it. I felt I had to be completely honest with him about my past so eventually I did tell him that I went with a prostitute once.He was very, very upset about it and I had to move back in with my parents for a few days.He told me that it would take him a long time to reconcile her image of me with what I did that night. I think his main point was that I didn't need to ever do that as I was attractive enough to pull a person without paying for it. It took a lot of reassuring on my behalf to convince her that I wouldn't go and do it again.
I've never paid for it and never have had the urge to either. For me, it seems so cold and depressing to treat sex that way. To me, it just seems to reek of failure, denial and loneliness. I'd much rather just rub a few out, with no one to judge me, no one to condemn me, no aggravation, no illegalities or exploitation. But these are only my own personal feelings about it as a guy, not really condemning the men that do pay for sex. It's just that I never ever could.There is the saying, you aren't paying for the sex. You're paying for them to go away afterward.
It is interesting question definitely. If some one ofference me to have sex for money i more than likely will say no, but of course if my boyfriend did this in the playing manner i will say yes. It will be something like role play. If i not have a boyfriend i will never suggest money for some man for sex with me. I think that it can abase the person i make an offer to. I do not like to offend people and this is very offendive. Besides i think that i can myself to have sex with guy without money. It will look very strange if i come up to the man and becom offer him money for sex with me. There is somthing funny in this situation. So, it is very dangerous to ask people about having sex with tmem for money. It is my opinion.
I can't stand having sex for money, it is immoral, as for me. But I know so much people who are really ready to pay for sexual pleasure with strangers. Most of them are straights, who have no family, but who have a lot of money. Actually, they are satisfied with their life without constant sexual partner, I mean husband, or wife, and without children. They just get satisfaction from paid sex with prostitutes, because they don't want to change their way of life, or even to take responsibility for lives of other people close to them. I think that their problem is in their mind. Such people should change their viewpoint on this world, and on real life values.
It is a difficult though very obvious question. You see there are different people, we are all different. And sometimes guys do not want serious relations, they just need sex. And to get it they are ready even to pay for it. Because they are sure they will get a handsome man with hot body and they would surely want to make love with him. Although there are those who really seek for love and I consider such men try to find partners fo free, naturally so to say. Also many guys have problems with self-confodence and this can be one more reason for having sex for money.
Oh man,that's a completely impossible thing for me-I just can't understand it.In what crazy need a person must be to pay for it?!What's the f*cking satisfaction of it?!When somebody's acting like he wants you,all that kicking and screaming-and you pay for all that?!It's disgusting and the most ugly thing ever outthere!I mean,I can't even imagine for myself to go outthere and pick up some tramp,and then f*ck him and pay for that! :cheer: Come on,I think of myself much more better than that!Well,it might fit for somebody,but definitely not for me.
i have no attitude to sex for money. if people like to do and they think that it is their profession adn it is the only way for them to make money then it is alright, it is their business and i do not have chance to criticise them. but for me sex for money is miserable. i think that i am strong and young man and i have still everything in order to earn money in the other way. i like sex and i like to have sex with strangers but not for money. just for satisfaction and nothing more.
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