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Mark
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Guys,Hello)))we Recently became parents to our beautiful baby boy))))After all, if we're gay, doesn't mean that we don't have the right to be parents.With the help of our wonderful doctors and the clinic we chose a healthy woman who gave birth to our son)))And now we are very happy)))To prospective parents, surrogacy is a chance to have a long-awaited child, even if not in the traditional way, but, nevertheless, they are considered the biological parents. On the negative side, they are wrong only in choosing a surrogate and that surrogate motherhood is a costly procedure. :silly: :silly: :silly: For surrogate mothers it is a great way to earn a lot of money, moreover, as to the moral component – it is a generous thing, to help people to gain the coveted happiness)))what do you think about this?????

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Mark
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The primary benefit of surrogacy is that it is often more successful than other reproductive treatment methods. Sometimes the surrogate mother supplies the egg to be fertilized, though some couples have their own genetic material implanted into the surrogate mother. About 40 weeks later, the surrogate mother delivers a healthy baby, which the couple can then take home with them without dealing with the physical issues that pregnancy can provide. Another benefit of surrogacy is the chance to form lifelong connections that benefit the family. Many surrogates stay involved in the lives of the children they helped to carry, creating a community aspect of family that provides a loving environment where a child can grow up. For many couples, the primary detriment to surrogacy is the overall cost. Many health insurance plans do not cover surrogacy, which means all medical expenses will be out of pocket. Add in the salary that many surrogates receive and the overall cost of bringing a child to full term can often exceed $40,000.

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Richard
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First of all I want to congratulate you with that fact that you are happy parents already and wish your baby boy to be happy and healthy. As for surrogacy for gay people, it is necessary to admit that for us there are only two possible ways of becoming parents - surrogacy and adoption. And those people who don't consider adoption as a possible option (it is a principle question for them that one of them should be a biological father of the child, they are afraid of some genetic diseases of the child or they are just not sure whether they will love an adopted child as much as they would love their own) surrogacy is the only possible option and it is great that it exists, that many children are born and their happy parents are able to share their happiness.

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Max
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Well, me and my husband will be parents soon as in two months our surrogate mother will bring us the child. A traditional surrogate is a woman who is artificially inseminated with the father's sperm. She then carries the baby and delivers it for the parents to raise. A traditional surrogate is the baby's biological mother. That's because it was her egg that was fertilized by the father's sperm. Donor sperm can also be used for a traditional surrogacy. Surrogates have also made parenthood an option for people who might not be able to adopt a child. Reasons could include: Their age. Their marital status. Their sexual orientation. So, I think that this is the way to have at least on the half your own child, using the sperm of one of fathers. So, you will also take part in the growing the child from the very birth.

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Mark
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Each thing in the world has own pros and cons and surrogacy procedure is not an exception. Yes, it gives ability to become parents, to be completed person, to experience the most precious thing in life - parenthood. Of course, there are those who want to earn money taking part in the program but again we should admit that probably all women who are willing to take part in the program need money and majority of them offer surrogacy service because of that. But i don't consider it like a minus.

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Mark
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It makes me think a lot about it.First of all I want to congratulate you with that fact that you are happy parents already and wish your baby boy to be happy and healthy. As for surrogacy for gay people, it is necessary to admit that for us there are only two possible ways of becoming parents - surrogacy and adoption. And those people who don't consider adoption as a possible option (it is a principle question for them that one of them should be a biological father of the child, they are afraid of some genetic diseases of the child or they are just not sure whether they will love an adopted child as much as they would love their own) surrogacy is the only possible option and it is great that it exists, that many children are born and their happy parents are able to share their happiness.

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Mark
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Like each question this one has different sides to think about. First of all I congratulate you with this pleasant moment! :) I wish you to be patient and wish your baby to become the happiest in the world! :cheer: If we tell about us as parents who want to become a father, surrogacy is the best way. But if we say about surrogate mother some people don't understand how she can give someone else the baby who she have been carrying for 9 months. This question can be discussed forever I think. This is a philosophical question. And like everything you do it depends on you and your personal believes. You have to decide yourself. We can't make everyone happy in the world.

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Mark
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I think that the primary benefit of surrogacy is that it is often more successful than other reproductive treatment methods. Sometimes the surrogate mother supplies the egg to be fertilized, though some couples have their own genetic material implanted into the surrogate mother. About 40 weeks later, the surrogate mother delivers a healthy baby, which the couple can then take home with them without dealing with the physical issues that pregnancy can provide. Another benefit of surrogacy is the chance to form lifelong connections that benefit the family. Many surrogates stay involved in the lives of the children they helped to carry, creating a community aspect of family that provides a loving environment where a child can grow up.

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Mark
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I totally agree with you. Although surrogacy is pretty expensive, it`s worth trying. Just imagine that you will not only be able to have a beautiful baby, but to be here for all important and very moving momets like the first kick etc. You will be able to be present at hospital and see your little happienes from the first minutes of his life. And women can earn money and just help somebody to get a real sense of life. It`s beautiful.

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Sweet_Micky
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I want to add that surrogacy is much better than adoption, cause contrary to sensible logic (there are many children in need of a home - so adoption should be easier), being allowed to adopt a child is difficult and takes a long time. The whole paperwork process along with psychological evaluations and waiting list etc. may take many years. Surrogacy is a means of attaining parenthood in the true sense of the term – and this in itself brings joy to such a couple. The advantage through it all is that in the end, no matter how long and tedious the process is, you will finally become parents. The only problem that this process needs a lot of money. When it comes to budget, most couples might find it too costly for their means. And not all medical insurance companies cover the fertilization or the delivery process.

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Benny
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i really do not understand it very good why people prefer surrogacy . i am big fan of adoption. and i think that it will be really very good for the child. because he doesnt have parents, he needs love and care. and when you adopt this little child and see hope in his eyes i think that it is great. maybe some people think that they should have genetically their children, the will know that they have their habits and all that stuff.and of course it is the advantage and maybe for some it is very important. but i think that they worry too much about stupid things. when you will have the child it wont be very important for you.

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