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Mark
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I am in relationship with bisexual. He was married and he has a child from a previous marriage, who live with us, because his mother found another man and created a new family and now she does not want to have other children except new one. I accepted it and love his child like my own. I was even happy to be a part of the family. But after a 3 years of relationshiops he said that he doubts if they are good. He thinks that living with a woman will make his life better and become a better thing for his son. I do not know what to do in such a situation...any ideas? :(

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Alex
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I am sorry about such a difficult situation. I do not know what to advice you and I can understand your feelings, but if your partner tries to choose with brains only, but not heart, maybe he is not the same sincere to you, as you to him.
Or maybe it is a temporary weakness and it will pass away. Try to wait, be patient and see what will happened.

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Don
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I am sorry about your situation. He should think twice at the start of your relationships and understand all pros and cons, but 3 years passed and he decided to change his life again. It seems like he is not sincere with you, just trying to find reasons for breaking relationships. I hope I am wrong and his mind is just mixed up.

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Mark
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I am sorry to say it, but it really sounds like a reason for breaking with you. You were together for 3 years and once he understood that he needs woman for his home, for his child. It is strange, for sure!

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Mark
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Thank you for answering me. I really needed to talk to someone. I decided to talk to him and to understand the situation finally, but nothing really helped. He said he loves me and it is not an easy thing for him to make such a decission, but I do not understand how is it possible? His son also loves me and we became a family during these 3 years, but now we wants to ruine everything and build a new family on this ruines.

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Mark
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Maybe he just found someone else, a woman, and now we tries to be good in such a situation? I am sorry, maybe I am too pessimistic and straight in experessing my ideas, but I do not want to give your false hopes. I try to understand the situation...

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Mark
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Mark, thank you for your honesty! I like it and I am not going to have false hopes too, I prefer to be objective and realist. That is why I try to get a view from aside too. Thank you!
I asked him about it, but he said that he would not do it. I also did not feel the presense of someone else in our relationships...I do not know

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Mark
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Good-afternoon ! Don't worry so much, first it seems to be bad and the end of your life, but it's your beginning, even If your partner'd broken with you. Because you can't influence at him. It's his choice .

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zag
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Difficult situation.I don't understand his behavior.How to behave with you in such a way after three years relationship.It's just a reason to leave.I'm sorry if it hurts you to hear it.But i haven't another explanation :(

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Mark
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Thank you, guys. Zag, I agree with you. My mind tells me the same things, even through my heart does not want to believe it is possible. I would prefer and accept any other explanations, even if he lost his feelings, found another one, anything, what would sound more realistic.

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Billy-Bob
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let him go, will not be happy with you, and he will spoil your life with his doubts, so you will find your love in some time, this is not he! maybe he is thinking that woman as a mother is better for his child then 2 man as parents

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