It's the shady side to bisexuality, were many of their sins falls on us gays, and not the straight community. Funny a man can have a wife kids, been found down on his knees in a public toilet with another male, and they right there and then get labeled "GAY!" Yet just as they were never straight rather pseudo, the same must be said about them beging gay; well they're really not either you know. Just as bi is not straight it's not gay either; bi is bi.
I ponder how many of these families are devastated by such actions being made public, about a family man (not all republicans) being found out to swing both ways. Or to come home one day declaring I've met Steve and we are in love. Yes bisexuality and it's down low indeed.
I cannot stand the "bisexuals will do anything" attitude.I'll tell you why, because this is the attitude I find from a lot of people - bisexuals are considered too "gay" for some straight people, and too "straight" for gay people. Although I can't claim to have never cheated on someone (that's another story, a tad complex), once I fall for someone, I'm there, hook, line and sinker. If you love someone, you shouldn't need to stray or look elsewhere in my opinion. I do, however, know a bisexual - male - who has a long-term girlfriend who lets him sleep with men on the side. I find it disgraceful, really, but I think a few bad apples use their sexuality as an excuse to **** around. That says more about him than about his sexuality.
A bisexual/gay relationship works just as well as a bisexual/straight relationship. If it didn't, then bisexuals would only be in relationships with other bisexua
A bisexual guy might not need to have relations with both genders for his whole life. I've treated other bisexuals who've explored both sides of their sexuality before they got married and that was enough: "Yep. I'm bisexual. Those were great times. Loved it. I don't need to do it anymore." Other bisexuals find they want to have relations with both genders all their lives.Bisexuality is also very complicated, because there are so many shades of bisexuality. It is almost impossible to get universal agreement, even among bisexuals, on what a bisexual is and isn't. Some people still argue that there are no bisexuals. Others insist that everybody is bisexual. Some people call themselves bisexual; others have sex with both genders but don't claim the label. Advocates of "sexual fluidity" claim that labels like "bisexual" (and "gay" and "straight") may not always be useful or meaningful.
I think that it is very bad situations. You are together a long time already and it is painful to hear sich word form the person you live with. But sometimes life is cruel and we suffer. Maybe it is worth to renew your relations somehow? remember the time you have got acquainted, what relations did you have than? Why you decided to live together, to create family, to take hs child?
You are connected with some feelings. But people have such feature to forget why they are connected. with time feelings zap and we don't have the feeling of euphoria we had for the first time.
I avoid bisexuals for serious relationships, because I am going to build a happy family. Relationships with bisexuals are not stable enough, because in most cases they search new feeling and emotions from having sex with man. But then they almost always return to their families, because they are afraid of something serious.
I was touched by your story to the core. I do not understand why your partner is doing some strange drama of your relationship. I see no point in doubting something if it's good for you to be close to a person and you love him. He seems to be trying to invent a problem where it does not exist. He says that he loves you and his son loves you, and you have already become attached to the boy. What's the problem then? Let him tell you more about his emotions and reasons. Explain to him that his words hurt you. After all, people should not hurt their loved ones. Relationships should be happiness and not suffering.
i think it is normal. As for me i like men and i like women. I think women are much more beautiful, than us. They jave got so beautiful body, hair. But i am more gay, than bisexual. My boyfriend and i have got sex with a girl, and it was nice experience for us. We looked to our relationship differently. We fall in love one more time. I think, it depends on yourself, doesn't matter gay you or not. each of us can have such relationships.
I always did not loved and understood bisexual. It's a little weird guys because they can not decide who are they till the end. How can you live with that? It's as if you're stuck between the natural and gay forever! But then you'll never know what is best for you. You're not going to have a normal family, you do not have a good relationship, because at any time you can leave your man and begin to live with a woman. Or conversely, a few years later you can leave your woman and get away to live with a man. So, thease are people who really can not determine until the end of their identity in this world.And I do not think to have a family with them - a good idea. This can be is broken at any time.
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