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Peter
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Relationships with family of your partner

My family is loyal and friendly and I know they will accept any guy I will show them. They just want me to be happy, but I know there are quite different situations, when the family can make a great influence on relationships between couple who loves each other. And this influence, unfortunately, is not good. It can even spoil relationships. What about you, guys? How do parents and relatives of your partner meet you? Do you remember your first meeting with them? Was it difficult and nervous or you felt like home there?

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Nill
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I am against such meetings with family members at the first stages of relations. At first you should be sure in your partner and in your relations. you should know for sure that if tomorrow his family members will tel him that he shouldn't meet with you he will be able to fuck them off. i don't tell that he should stop his communication and relations with family but he should show his solid position concerning your relations.

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Mark
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Of course there is not need in such meetings when you are on first stages, but when you are together for a year and more and have rather serious relationships and plans for the future. I think that meeting is important, you should at least try and if they will not accept, there is nothing to do. You just continue building the relationships with your partner and hope they will change their mind or you still try to convince them?

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Alex
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We have rather good relationships. I can not say we are very close, but we do not fight or hate each other. We do not meet each other too often, just on Birthdays and it is enough for me.

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Peter
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Relationships with family of your partner

My partner had a mother only and we were in normal relationships with her. I can not say we are friends, but we communicate well, when we meet each other from time to time.

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zag
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I have a good relationship in the family,friendly.The same I can said about my boyfriend family.I know his family,everyone loves me and I love them very much and respect

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Relationships with family of your partner

all of us have families and all families are different, each family has own customs and tradition, each family has own points of view and opinions. When you are trying to become a member of the other family the last thing you should do it is to be nervous. they are also people and think they also worry a bit about the meeting. But they have some advantage - there are a lot of them and you are alone if not to take into account your partner because he is a member of his family. But don't worry if they agreed to meet with you it means they want to know you better and it is a good sign.

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Relationships with family of your partner

Well, first of all - meeting with parents is really important step! You must be completely sure of your boyfriend when you're going to take this step. That's because his parents have to believe in your sincerity! Today, not so much parents can take us in good way, and do not change their attitude towards us so badly. But it's even harder when you meet with the parents of your guy. Of course, you can get a lot of bad things. For example his dad can be very angry at you. He just accepted the fact that his son is gay. And now he has to take you as his son as well. It's very hard for him. But you have to try and you should not be afraid of something.

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Peter
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Relationships with family of your partner

I had bed relationships with mom of my ex. The worst thing happened when his mom knew about our situation...As in she really hated me, she talked to me once and she really seemed like a monster! She told me that she doesnt like me for his son, and first of all he dont like his son to have a bf because he is going to be priest (HER DREAMS FOR HIM)....She also told me that she will kill herself if his son (my bf) wont become a priest because she already spent much for his education...U can just imagine how she really fight me and call me bad names. But because I loved my bf, i still showed respect to his mom, i never fight her back...as in I am a real martyr that time..

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Peter
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To tell the truth, I almost have no relationships with my partner's parents. Of course, they know about me and my relationships with their son, but I don't communicate with them very often. But we are not enemies. When my partner calls his parents, I always ask to say "hello" to them from me, and they also ask about me. If we visit them or they visit us (and it happens very seldom because of different circumstances) We communicate normally. I always help my partner in choosing presents for his parents for some holidays. I cannot have something against people who brought the love of my life to the world.

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Peter
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now i do not have a constant boyfriend, but with my ex we were for a long time, so we were aquainted with our parents, and what can i say about this. it all depends on your attitude to this question. each glace of your parents to your boyfriends can seemed to you "bad" or "unhappy" but do not be hung up about this. with time they will accustom to him

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