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matthew
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Relationships with family of your partner

Seeings the parents this weekend. His father is the one he says I should worry about! I'll take it easy and talk about football, Get him a bottle of alcohol he likes and his mother some flowers. He's not letting us stay in the same bed, which is awkward. We're bother 23....

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LittleLion
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Joined: 10/17/2016 - 02:17
Relationships with family of your partner

My family and friends were/are very involved in my personal life. Something I regret because I get influenced by them a lot. They don’t approve of him because of the way he has treated me. If he gets really mad and hurt, he lashes out and says things that are difficult to take back. He had apologized for everything he has done, even mentioned specific things (which is something, because he has too much pride to apologize). I forgive him very easily, and I manage to dust myself off. I love this man with everything in my being and I believe him when he says he is working on himself. He had proposed to me three times, I denied it every time because I know my family and friends won’t really like it. Although, I can imagine a life and a family with him as clearly as if it were a reality already. I have been with other men, but I can’t stay committed to any of them. I try to satisfy my family and friends, but I’m not entirely happy…

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 10 months ago
Joined: 07/08/2014 - 08:22
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Arguments in any family relationship can be painful, sometimes destroying the love and trust between people, and leading to affairs, cold rejection, and finally divorce. And most of us did not learn from our family of origin how to conduct these arguments in any kind of safe loving fashion.The first principle of conflict resolution is simple: your family is not your punching bag. Your partner and your children should be the most important and cherished persons in your world. I believe it is a great privilege to be gifted with a family, and that family deserves nothing less than ones full devotion and protection. Therefore no matter what your mate or children are doing, no matter how you feel about their actions, you have no right to act out your rage and hurt onto them.

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Carl
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Parents, I`d like to have a very good family at least fro the side of my partner“Parents are like God because you wanna know they're out there, and you want them to think well of you, but you really only call when you need something.” ― Chuck Palahniuk, Invisible Monsters. I didn`t meet a person whom I will like so much that will go on a date to his parents. I think that this is very important thing and this step should mean a lot for you. I think that when I will find the person, the idol, with whom I will be able to create the family, I will try to fix the situation with y father and take my partner to my home!

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 10 months ago
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Hi I have been with my current partner for nearly 3 years and my family have never approved. I have been married before and they were never a fan of him either. My friends think my partner is great and makes me so happy. We are at the stage of moving in together and getting engaged.I have asked the family on numerous occasions what there problem is with him to which they cant answer.I love him so much but this situation is tearing us apart. They are so rude to him especially my sister… Who’s relationship is abusive in many ways but I never disrespect her mate. I’m unsure what to do. I hate drama it gives me anxiety.

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Steve
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I have good relationships with the family of my partner. Of course, when we had already got acquainted it was difficult to find a common language with my partner's mother, she seemed to be jealous, but with time we became good friends. I think that it does not matter whether there are good relationships with the family of your partner or not, the point is that you love each other and are ready to be together in spite of all negative judgements and interferences. All in all, if parents want to see their children happy they will respect their children's choice of a partner.

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 10 months ago
Joined: 07/08/2014 - 08:22
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The relationships with family of your partner are very important things for your reletionships with your boyfriend. You know, everybody love their parents and all parents love their children. So the main thing that you must to do is also love his son. They must see how much you love him and they will love you. But not all are so good. All people are different and it is very important to find the right way in communication with them. First of all you should understand that parents of your boyfriend are the most important people in the life of your partner. And they know about this. But now you are also jne of the main people for him and very often parents csn not cope with it.

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Ben29
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I am that type of men who really believe that their relationships are their own business between two people who love each other, and there is no place for parents of two of them in their "small family". Personally I didn't introduce my partners my parents. Maybe I felt that there was no need in it yet.

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 10 months ago
Joined: 07/08/2014 - 08:22
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It's an important issue,as we all know this from the inside,and it's not always all peaches and cream,unfortunately.I have a personal experience of dating a guy,whose mom was a big influence on him,and in all he did,including our relationship,he asked for her advice.That's not normal and if he's not willing to change it-get out of there for good.He just have to choose and find the best way for everybody-of course,if he truly loves you.With my today's partner's parents I have a great,perfect relationship-we love and respect each other,so I think I'm lucky. ;)

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 10 months ago
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Oh, no! The worst topic ever. I hate to be introduced to the family of my partners. That is the worst thing over. When my partner first took me to his family I was so nervous that couldn't even speak normally. My hands were even shaking. That was a pure evil, hell and so on! Hate it! Whatever I was said about always being myself, I simply couldn't grip myself together and show me as I was. Although they appeared to be great people (I was lucky so to say) among all the possible tortures on our world I would call this oone the worst. Emotionally it is almost unbearable)

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