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Peter
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Relatives and surrogacy

More of it. I think that is awful idea. All we know how it is hard for woman who give birth to leave this child somebody. It is very hard. Now image the situation when your own sister give birth for your child. She will alweys near you and your kid. And she will know that it is your child too. It is awful to realize it. I am sure that it is very bad idea. Image if your sister say your child that she is his mother one day.
It will be a big stress for your daugthter or son. It is so strange to have three parents in one family. In my opinion the surrogate mother must be a strange person who will never meet your child.

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Peter
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Relatives and surrogacy

As for me I think this is not a very good idea. This is strange at least. How can you ask your relatives to do this? Have any idea how to do it? - I don't have any. They are your blood relatives. This is awful! :S Becides it is unlawfully. You shoul find another surrogate parents. Or you should find another way to become a father at least. ;)

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Peter
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Relatives and surrogacy

I think that surrogate motherhood is one of many currently available forms of Assisted Reproductive Technologies (ARTs) that have developed in response to the increasing number of individuals/couples who find themselves unable to conceive a child on their own. Surrogate motherhood involves the services of a woman who agrees to carry/gestate a child for the express purpose of surrendering that child to the intending/commissioning couple upon the birth of the child. The demand for surrogate motherhood is created by a diagnosis of female infertility, although a woman need not be infertile in order to employ the services of a surrogate. You are really crazy if you want to have a child, while the surrogate mother of your baby is one of your relative, it sounds ridiculous.

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Benny
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Relatives and surrogacy

i know this type of surrogacy is called altruistic surrogacy and i think that it is good alternative to the common one.if you have the person whom you can really trust and who will want to do such big thing for you. if you do not want to waste or you do not have lots of money and do not have enough time to look for all the documents, then you can try to use it. i think that the best option would be to ask some relatives to be your surrogate mother. it often happens that the mother wants to help her child to have children. and i think that it is the best variant and i am very happy that people use it. to my mind it has lots of advantages.

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Bob
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Relatives and surrogacy

It is have many pluses and minuses. Ok, I'm not sure why I was chosen to give an answer for this, but I'll give my opinion. On the positive side, it does help a childless couple to achieve their hearts desire: a longed for baby. Perhaps they cannot conceive a child themselves, or can conceive but not carry to term. Surrogacy allows them the chance to have a child that biologically is their own. However, the process and procedures are not without risk. The surrogate must undergo testing, take drugs and hormones to prepare her body, and have her body invaded by foreign organisms - fertilized embryo which are biologically foreign. There is no guarantee that the introduced embryo will 'take' and implant. Or, many could take at once, resulting in a multiple birth which is riskier, health wise, for the surrogate. Costs for the procedure and follow up care could be enormous.

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Relatives and surrogacy

Hmm...I wonder if you thought really long to post such a stupidity here,dude. :) Ever heard of incest and stuff like that? B) I'm not saying that you will technically do that to your mother or sister,but still-ain't that sh*t disgusting to you?An what do you know about genetic problems in such cases?Your kid can be born a freak of any type,man-just pick one.Don't believe me-ask around,talk with your doctor or google it,God damned!It's a biggest stupidity ever outthere,man,really!Are you some kind of a clown?Sure,I can think of the way you've came to such a genius thought-it's easier and cheaper with the relatives,right?Well,if you want your kid to take a part in some circus of freaks-go for it and see the results.

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Peter
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Relatives and surrogacy

I think that from the point of view of law it really can be dangerous comparing to applying to the reproductive clinic for the surrogacy service. If you apply to a clinic, you usually sign a contract where it is admitted that the surrogate mother has no right for the child she carries and bares, and trying to take a child or to interfere somehow in his or her life in future will be considered as transgressing and will be punished by law.
If you ask a relative to be a surrogate mother of your child, it will not happen because you trust your relative and you don't sign any contract which would provide some legal guarantees fr you during a pregnancy and after the child is born. And biologically she is a mother, so if she wants to take a child, the law will b on her side .

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Floyd
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Joined: 01/31/2018 - 14:30
I think it's not a good idea.

I think it's not a good idea. Also, if I use surrogacy program, I do not want my mom or sister or someone else has been a surrogate mother. I understand that I will have a lot more confidence in them. But in any case, childbirth - is a very difficult thing. And I do not want to make it my mother or any of my relatives. In addition, I do not want to spoil the relationships. Because I do not know what can happen afterwards. Maybe someone of them will have a maternal instinct? So, I do not want to be a problem because of this. In addition, I want to say goodbye to the surrogate mother forever after I will get my baby! It's all! Because I think that each of us can get a lot of problems along the way. But nobody wants to address these challenges.

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