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Nill
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should we marry?

I am in relations wth foreigner. We are together more than a year already. Last week he suggested me to get married officially. To tell the truth it was a big surprise for me and I am really happy to receive such an proposal and of course I agreed. And from the one hand it is really great news and somewhere deeply inside of my heart I understand that it is the thing I wanted most of all. But together with it some problems appeared. We are residents of different countries and it is a question how it is possible for us to become parents? Resident of which country our future child will be? To tell the truth we know nothing about gay parenting because earlier we had no need to know this information. So, now I am asking these questions (maybe they are wrong) and need help from you guys. Will be thankful for all information.

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Lanny
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should we marry?

One of you can become an official parent independently form the country of residence but think for this you shouldn't be married couple because it can cause problems during the procedure. Is it really important for you to be officially married couple or it is more important for you to be parents? On of you can adopt a child and you can live together like a family but officially you will be not married and only one of you will be official paretn of a child. Do you think about such variant?

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Nill
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I don't know how to be if you are residents of different countries. Maybe you should consult with attorneys of your countries and than you will know for sure what you should do and what you shouldn't. There are a lot of people which are residents of different countries and it is ok but how to be with adoption or surrogacy and with parenting in general? Think you need consultation of the specialist.

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Nill
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should we marry?

It will be better if you receive qualified consultation from a god specialist.

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Nill
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should we marry?

If he doesn't try to change you. He knows you're messier than him, that you always need a pet cat, and can't cook to save your life, and all of that is all right by him.You feel comfortable planning things six months — or a year — into the future. You're not worried you'll have to cancel plane tickets or say you won't be needing a plus-one after all. You feel that confident in your relationship.He plans activities that he knows you'll enjoy. He doesn't depend on you to be in charge of everything, and he remembers that you said you wanted to go to that new restaurant or museum exhibit.​​He works hard at his job, but you're his priority. If you ask him to go to an event that's important to you, he's not afraid to step out of the office to accompany you. He'll figure out a way to get his work done, just as you would do for him.​Then of course marry him!!!

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Richard
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If your lover asks you to get married officially, then it means that such option is available for gay people in his country, so there will be no legal problems. As for future children and their residence, there are two variants - the right of blood and the right of ground. The right of blood means that the child has a residence of his\her parents and the right of ground means that the child has a residence of country where he or she was born. So decide in which country you will live and this will be your child's official homeland according to the rule of ground as dominant, because your child cannot have two residences according to the rule of blood.

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Nill
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It’s true that you don’t just marry your soulmate, but his/her family as well. Many people complain about the in-laws and this doesn’t indicate your union is doomed, but life is so much easier when everyone gets along for the most part. I’m lucky my current beau’s parents and sister are awesome, but a former flame’s dad was unkind and distrustful of me, so I figured out pretty quickly that I hadn’t met the right guy yet. Wanting to be with the person you love all of the time doesn’t make you needy or annoying. It shows you cherish that person deeply and understand every experience — whether big or small — is better with him/her around. I enjoy watching The Simpsons in bed, but I always laugh harder at Homer’s antics when my S.O. is there cackling with me. Alone time is healthy, but so is wanting to giggle and chat with your favorite person in the world after a rough day at work.

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Nill
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In any case if your relations are really serious and this offer to get married was serious than in the process you will know everything including the fact resident of which country your child will be. Think depends on the country where you will live and where the child will be born. I always envy those who was born in the USA because if child born there automatically child will become the resident of the country. Maybe there are countries where it is like in the USA. Where are from your second half?

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Nill
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You know if he doesn't try to change you. He knows you're messier than him, that you always need a pet cat, and can't cook to save your life, and all of that is all right by him.You feel comfortable planning things six months — or a year — into the future. You're not worried you'll have to cancel plane tickets or say you won't be needing a plus-one after all. You feel that confident in your relationship.He plans activities that he knows you'll enjoy. He doesn't depend on you to be in charge of everything, and he remembers that you said you wanted to go to that new restaurant or museum exhibit.​​

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Nill
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I wanna start with congrats! it`s always so great when two people who are madly in love with each other decide to become a family officialy. I think you don`t have to worry. You should consult really good attorneys of both countries. Then you will know which one have more "friendly" attitude towards such marriages and adoption, so you can move to it. And then it`s up to you how live your own life! ;)

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Ben29
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If you want to have a baby, and you are going to implement this idea into life with adoption method, then you don't have to marry, if you don't want. But if you want to register your marriage, then don't mind about adoption. I may suppose that your future child will be the citizen of the country in which he will be born.

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