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Mark
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I met a guy and we had sparkles between us. we both wanted each other, it was obvious and we did not want to wait. But we did not discuss the theme of active and passive. I prefer to be active and when we got together in bedroom I found out that he is active too. No one of us wanted to find any compromise. He was so stubborn and demanding, that the first impression ruined.
It is a first time I faced such a situation. What about you? What do you do in such situation? do you try to find compromises and is it possible to enjoy sex if both of you are actives or passives?

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Mark
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If you are not ready to solve the problems and conflicts appearing from the very start, it means you will not have a future together. I am sory to say it to you, but I think it is true. Maybe it is good that you found it out so soon and did not waste too much time.

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Alex
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Seems like you both are egoists, if you did not find a compromise even in such a situation. You refused to share such a moment, to get pleasure, just because you could not choose who would be active? :) just think about it. You both lost a chance...

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Mark
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It is a strange situation to be honest. But seems like this guy is really not for you. So do not worry and good luck in your future search :)

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zag
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I agree with the above comment that you are both egoists.This is neither good nor bad,just you have such a character.Try to solve this problem,you're good together.Good luck

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Mark
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Yes,I really believe that we need to enjoy sex,even if you're both active.There is nothing wrong,on the contrary I think it is cool and you have a lot of passion,you can enjoy sex :P :P :P

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John
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if you have passion and felings between two of you and everything is acceptable except this one thing than you should have a compromise. try to be active in turn. today you are active - the other day he is active and vice verse.
try to do this if you are going to have serious relationships.

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Mark
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I like both...depends on my mood. sometimes on super turned on and justneeded it rough. And there are were times when I felt super connected to my boyfriend and we have had amazing slow, romantic sex. But now we try new positiona and what to feel something wild in the air. Sometimes we howl and it makes us speed up rithm and we do it so if we are on the desert island and nobody hears us. :blush: Bu they hear. Our neighbours complained even. Said they will call the police and tell what we are doing here and God will punish us for our orientation :lol: :lol:

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Mark
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I consider myself versatile which means I can be EITHER passive or active and I would prefer my partner to be the same because that would allow for much more variety in our sex life. I don't chat so I don't know what the distribution of passive/active is. i think you should somehow deal with your partner about this question, despite first time was spoiled you can return everything in good way, for example, to be active in turn, time after time :)

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Mark
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I think that it's not very good combination of 2 active. They will be exhausted in several weeks and bored, or even they will argue ho should be the boss.One active and one passive partner is a good combination – the active partner will gladly take the organizational duties in the family as well as take a responsibility and make decisions. The passive partner won’t suffer from the leadership pressure, but he or she will need some time alone to rest from the partner’s activity. Problems can start, if the active partner decides everything by himself and acts without taking into consideration the spouse’s opinion. In such a case the passive side can alienate from the partner and can get a false impression, that the partner doesn’t care for the spouse. It is important, that the passive side gets heard and respected. Important decisions have to be made together. The rest will be easily organized by the leader.

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Mark
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I think some people are mostly dominant and some others mostly submissive. Some are totally dominant and other totally submissive. Tey there are some people who define themselves as versatiles, but I am not one of them.I think I don't like fucking someone. I don't feel anything. Yes it's better than sex with a woman, but it doesn't make me feel such aroused as being fucked.zSome people want to get fucked by straight men. That is strage, but surfing on gay tube I noticed that some ''dominant'' men are defined ''straight''. A man can be both straight and dominant in a homosexual relationship. I guess..

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