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Peter
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recently I have met with some my gay friends. And we have a few new members in our group and two of them I know from some past life. With one of them we had a few dates and than another one date with him two...so we are like three ex bf :) and when we talked with one and than with another one they told awful things about each other. i don't know what for the did it but they told the another one change for worth and bla bla bla. i thought that i will be not able to endure one more such talk. Should i tell them what they tell about each other? and i can imagine what they tell each other about me. LOL.

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Don
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Oh, it is better not to take part in such gossips. I have such things and I would not tell anything about their talks and sharing awful things about each other. it is their business, do not pay attention. If they have nothing else to do, then give him chance to be happy with such talks. I think you should better be careful with such people. They are not too sincere :)

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Alex
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Oh, I hate these gossips. People say that women are fans of gossips, but it is not true, men can be the same or even worse. I do not like such people and I do not do it by myself. I can share everything just with my partner and talk about someone else/

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Peter
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I prefer not to be a part of such gossips. It is not for me. And I prefer to be as far as possible from such people, who act like this. They could never be sincere, just collect information, maybe imagine something and then use it against you and everyone else.

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Mark
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I prefer to avoid such people, surrounding me, because gossips are not something which I am interested in. You are right, if they say such things about others, they will do the same about you.

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Peter
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I would not tell them what they talk about each other. I do not want to be a part of such situation, gossips. I would not pay attention on such a situation and show that it is not too interesting for me.

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Nill
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I also decided not to tell them, I realized that it will be bigger conflict as i imagine it and as a result I will be the part of this and also I don't see some important reason to tell them. just left it like it is.

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Peter
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remember that it is not worth to be connected with a situations when someone told the other one that he did something that the third person didn't like. Always it has bad consequences and as a rule people who took part in this story didn't talk with each other for years. especially if you all are connected somehow... if you want to save this relations just keep silent. The only thing you should take and remember from this lesson is that they are not the best friends and in it not a fact that they don't talk about you when gather together for a cup of coffee.

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Peter
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These are the usual rumors. I do not think you should talk to both of them that they talk about each other. Because it will spoil relations for the three of you. So it is better to be silent and keep going in this way, as you have today. This will be the best option for this situation anyway. In addition, if you tell them that, they can start to get angry at you. And you will be sorry that they say bad things to each other. Just put up with it and forget it all! They will settle down with time. So, everything is really good anyway! Main try not to go back to such a conversation with them. :) ;)

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Peter
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I don't like people gossiping about me. Since I should treat others the way I would like to be treated, then I shouldn't gossip about others either.
Gossiping only creates mistrust, so I find it best to avoid it totally.Gossip which is positive and supportive is a benefit to all. gossip that is negative and hurtful is character assassination, done behind the mask of anonymity. I would stop the talks if I were you. These people can put up one day and tell vice virse that it was you first who started gossiping with them. Just avoid such people.

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Peter
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i alaso think that you should not become as they are and talk with someone of them on the theme of other one. it's their business, let them sort it out by themself. and you can say to him that you don't what to listen anything about that third guy.

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