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Harry
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 09/02/2016 - 06:11
Unrequited love

Hi all, guys! I was in quite a difficult situation. Maybe someone of you have already had some kind of similar experience in his life. But in any case I want to say that this is the first time for me. In addition, I will tell the details of the situation for you guys. I want to say that I work in the office, and I have never had an office romance. First of all, my boss can fire for such things. And I live with my partner, whom I love with all my heart. But a few weeks ago a guy from my office began to provide favors for me. It starts to become more and more difficult to somehow did not pay attention to such things. And today, he declared his love for me and offered me a cup of coffee in a cozy place with him. I was just in shock, and I do not know what to say. I think I have to give somehow politely. But I do not want to break his heart ... What can I do? What options do I have?

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Revardiny
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:07
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I think that the question of love - is always a rather complicated and can bring certain problems or pain. But in any case, I think it is quite a difficult situation for you. I had no experience in dealing with similar situations, but I also agree with your thoughts on this. You have to think about things that you're talking to this guy. Because maybe it's a really nice guy who also just saw something good and beautiful in you. Maybe he just has bright thoughts and feelings about you. And if you abandon it somehow rude, it's just going to break all his thoughts. It will break his heart completely ...

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Vincent
Last seen: 1 year 7 months ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:02
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This situation is quite pathetic. In addition, of course, I do not know all the details of this situation completely. But in any case, even you said, I am able to draw certain conclusions about it. I also think you should not be rude or harsh with the guy. Maybe he really wants something good for you. And maybe he really wants to have a relationship with you. Therefore, you should talk to him and explain your situation to him. But you have to be very careful in the things that you tell. Because from time to time, we may be unrestrained, and it will have bad consequences ...

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Barboro
Last seen: 1 year 7 months ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:03
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I think you just need to talk to this guy and tell him that you are married to your partner. Maybe it will be enough painful to hear such things for him, but I do not think you have too many options to solve this problem. The question of love is always complicated enough for each of us. Especially when you have to make a choice - it's the worst thing that can happen to us. Also, I do not think you should think about the opportunity to explain to this guy without his offense. Because it can have different emotions afterwards. But in any case, you must tell the truth to him.

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Harry
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 09/02/2016 - 06:11
Unrequited love

I also think you should just tell the truth for this guy. You can not hide anything from your personal life just because the whole process can go too far. And then you'll have a lot more problems. This is only the beginning of the sympathy of this guy. So I think this is the best time for him to learn the truth about you. And perhaps it will be much better than if he would learn the truth after some time by someone else. In addition, you should not change your partner. Because your partner may start to be jealous about it. So I think that now - the best time to tell all.

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Frank
Last seen: 1 year 10 months ago
Joined: 07/08/2016 - 15:20
Unrequited love

Of course, I also do not have any serious experience in similar situations. But in any case, something tells me that you can talk to this guy and he prezhdlozhit become really good friends. In addition, after that you can look at his reaction and tell me what you've found your beloved in this world. You can tell him that you do not want to hurt his feelings. But in any case, you are ready to introduce him to your partner and start to be friends together. I think this could be a really good starting point for any new level in your life. And I think this guy should not take too much because you do not get rid of it.

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Milton
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:04
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I am sure that each of us from time to time may receive any similar situation where we simply can not take the right choice because of feelings of compassion or zhalos. But in any case we have to make the right decision as quickly as possible, simply because the situation could become worse in the near future. I really think that you can talk to this guy and share your thoughts about this situation. But in any case, you should absolutely expect any reaction after you will tell the truth to him. Maybe it will have a certain pain for him, simply because it will break his hopes.

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Johnson
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:04
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I read all the reviews on this situation here, and I realized that a lot of guys think that you have to tell the truth to this guy and try to cope with this situation in the right way. But I want to tell you my opinion about the whole thing. I think you should include your own brain to make the right decision. Maybe you should first find out this guy's a little better. From time to time, our life can be really unpredictable thing. And we can take absolutely crazy solutions. But these solutions can make our lives better! You have to think about it!

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Ismual
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:04
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I'm not sure of the correctness of my advice for you. In addition, it is possible you will not even think about such things. But I do believe that we can sometimes do inexplicable things. Maybe you just have to trust your feelings about this situation to make the right decision? Maybe you just have to find this guy a little bit better for some time. And maybe you will find something new and just amazing for you. Who knows, maybe you will understand that your relationship with your partner is just nonsense in comparison with the relationship with this guy.

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Ivaniko
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:05
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I advise you to just listen to your heart. I know that it is quite difficult. In addition, in today's world, we have forgotten how to fully trust the most important questions of our heart. But I do advise you to just listen to the things that you will hear from your heart. Because when I get some serious problems in the relationship, or I am in a similar situation - I always listen to my heart. In addition, I can say that it has always helped me to find the right way out of all the problems that I have received. This can really help you cope with this situation.

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Alfronto
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:05
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I think that we do not have certain rules in our lives. Also, I've read some really interesting reviews here about this situation. And I can also say that you can try to find this guy a little better. And you can find out about his intentions. I think that only after that you can make certain conclusions. You should take the time to say something to that guy and tell him some personal information about you and your partner. I think it is important enough just to look at the behavior of this guy for some time. And then you will see his goals, desires and intentions for you.

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