As for me I do not know about the accuracy and efficiency of such an option. But maybe you just have to try to move away for a while from this guy. I understand that you are working in the same office. But you can always find a way to leave a little earlier or a little later coming to the office. I think you can try to use this option. Maybe this guy will be a little worried, and during some time it will attempt to re-establish contact with you. But in any case I think that after a while he will lose his interest in you because he does not get some kind of contact with you. And it can help you a lot.
the best way to escape in this situation is to force yourself to stop thinking about the beloved, one and only beloved. Since just to cease these thoughts is very difficult, you can just switch your attention to something else, books, movies, TV. You can do some sports.Depression is not just feelings, but the real chemistry. You in these hard days is simply not enough serotonin - the hormone of joy. The good news is that serotonin to satiety in dark chocolate with high cocoa content (60%)! The chocolates have magnesium, which calms the nervous system any, even a very loving boy. What will change? Your hormonal background. If you can't cheer yourself, let this work take on chocolate. The main thing is not to overdo it!
I think that this situation is quite pathetic. In addition, of course, I do not know all the details of this situation completely. But in any case, even you said, I am able to draw certain conclusions about it. I also think you should not be rude or harsh with the guy. Maybe he really wants something good for you. And maybe he really wants to have a relationship with you. Therefore, you should talk to him and explain your situation to him. But you have to be very careful in the things that you tell. Because from time to time, we may be unrestrained, and it will have bad consequences.
Unrequited love is the notion which is very widespread in each epoch, and in all time of our existence. Actually I don't know any ways how to refuse his love, and not to break his heart, or not to hurt him. All people who feel affection to somebody else are very vulnerable. If you love you really love your partner, you should refuse him now, because then you won't have any chance to do it in the polite, and painless way. The further, the worse. Do it as you can, because you may loose your current relationships. Good luck!
I think you should forget about your kindness and compassion. These qualities prevented many guys. Tell importunate gentleman that you no longer wish to meet him. At the same time, try to most clearly demonstrate the irreversibility of the decision. Be firm and serious. During a conversation in any case do not say that his personal shortcomings or your dissatisfaction with his behavior became cause of separation. It is better to tell him so that "sexy and attractive man" as him will definately find a better guy than you :silly: :silly: :silly:
As for me I think that the question of love - is always a rather complicated and can bring certain problems or pain. But in any case, I think it is quite a difficult situation for you. I had no experience in dealing with similar situations, but I also agree with your thoughts on this.
You have to think about things that you're talking to this guy. Because maybe it's a really nice guy who also just saw something good and beautiful in you. Maybe he just has bright thoughts and feelings about you. And if you abandon it somehow rude, it's just going to break all his thoughts. It will break his heart completely
You know I also think you should just tell the truth for this guy. You can not hide anything from your personal life just because the whole process can go too far. And then you'll have a lot more problems. This is only the beginning of the sympathy of this guy.
So I think this is the best time for him to learn the truth about you. And perhaps it will be much better than if he would learn the truth after some time by someone else. In addition, you should not change your partner. Because your partner may start to be jealous about it. So I think that now - the best time to tell all.
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