Well it is a difficult problem I guess. You see love is different, I do believe in that. I think different men have different opinions what love should be. For some guys it is a life full of sex, passion, teasing, friends and only two of them. For others it is a completely traditional kind of a familly, with a house, child and all the problems connected with it. Also some guys are afraid of responcibility. They may not be ready to tare responsibility for one more life. It is difficult and for most of us some time is desirable. Do not be to harsh in this question. Give him some time.
You know it is a real pity, when people, who love each other do not have real plans for future. I think that you should have a serious conversation with your partner, explain him your hopes, needs and expectations. If this person loves you, he will do anything for your happiness. The reason for such behavior of your partner is that he is not mentally and emotionally prepared to become a father yet, probably he just needs time to realize that your family can consist not only of two people. You should respect the feelings of your partner and make everything possible for him to change his point of view. :)
In most cases, the reasons for the unwillingness of a man to have a child are known. He understands that the birth of the child will bring about cardinal changes in the habitual life. Who wants to completely change their lives, if it is already beautiful? In a situation where a man does not yet want a child, it is useless to persuade him, to put pressure on him. Aggressive pressure can lead to the fact that a man will try to avoid any situations that can lead to a conversation about the birth of a child, become irritable. Calm conversation will be very handy. You need to ask a man about how he sees a joint future, about his expectations, fears, experiences. Completely change his mind at the first conversation is almost impossible, but you can share your vision of a common future, in which an important component of happiness will be children.
hello my friends! children are very important in our lives. children bring happy to our family and make it full. but it is so hard to have a baby. you should understand that it is big responsibility, you should give education to it, teach good manners. and not people are ready for such step. you shouldn't impose your opinion to your partner, because you will not have happiness. he should come to it by himself only. he should understand that he is ready to this step and to bear responsibility for the baby. maybe he is not sure, because he thinks that you haven't got so much money. he is afraid, that he will not be able to give child all that he will need. it is also important to understand. so don't be mad at him
The thing is you need to try and respect his feelings as well. i know it will be tough but the last thing you want is making him feel like he needs to have a baby right away and then for him to resent the baby for making him give up his career. You will get there in the end and he may come around to the idea sooner than you think xx
It must be really hard when your plans don't match up with your partner. I think you'll need to try and respect his feelings about it. You're both going to become parents after all and it's important that both of you are for it 100%. I can also kind of understand his point of view, He might want to feel more secure and stable before helping to bring a child into the world.
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