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Black
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Want to be with a girl

Hi all! The thing is, I tried with the girls to get acquainted, but they turned me down immediately. They said that I'm not manly, and too soft. I want to feel a real man. If the guy would not be seduced, I would not have suffered so. Help me! I understand now that girls even more attracted to me!

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Don Adriano
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Actually, if you are not very manlike so you can't change something. because it's you. and i don't fully understand, do you want to be with girl or with men? maybe you should seach another girl, who will like you. if you are too soft, then you can not make yourself stronger thatnature creat you

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Black
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this is strange. I thought you had already chosen your way. In any case, you should understand what you are doing. If you want to be with a woman, no one will hold you. You are free in your life. And you can do whatever you want. The main thing is you have to be satisfied in your wishes. But if you chose the way to be with a man, you must also be sure of that. Because if you're going to change your decision, when your partner will have serious intentions about you, it will be really hard. In addition, you can break the heart of your partner. :unsure:

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Black
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Well so are you gay or not? You are just choosing you oriantation. Or maybe you are here because women don`t accept you and you think men will find you attractive one..? If yes, you go the wrong way. You can cast prudence to the winds, breake bad and begin to relate with men and them you will regret about your experience, Like I regret about mine with girls.Think over everything again and decide who are better men or women. Then try to be with girls you like, prove her that you have feelings towards her and everything will be all right.

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Black
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i am sorry but I am confused a bit. in previous topic you are asking to give you advice how to return your partner whom you betrayed when you slept with another guy because of alcohol and now you are telling that girls are more attractive for you. I can't understand what is important for you. You told that you were 4 years together with your ex boyfriend and that you want to make him propose to get married as I understood and what had happened now? Did you change your mind and don't need you partner any more with whom you were together 4 years?

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Funnybunny
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If you have at least once tried a real man, I do not advise you to go back to the girls. It will be really wrong for you. In addition, you will not be getting the pleasure you want. I think that the man is much better in all respects! And very often the girls do not know what they want. It's really true! And now they can tell you that you're too soft. Or, they want to feel a real man. But many of them do not even know who it is - a real man for them. So you must understand all these things! And only after that you should make your choice. You can get a serious mistake. :unsure:

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Black
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Be yourself. Even if you can't live as a girl, it doesn't mean you should attempt to butch up or pretend to like things you don't. That will only make you feel worse about yourself and your situation.Let your hair grow out. Make sure you wash it daily and take extra good care of it.Take good care of your hair, skin, and nails. This will help you feel more feminine, and it will also make transition easier in the future if you ever get a chance to do it.Dress in comfortable and attractive clothes. Don't be afraid to check out the girl's section of your local department stores and malls. Luckily, it's very common to see guys wearing girls' jeans, and more and more shoes styles are being designed to fit both sexes. Wear girly look guy clothes such as pinstripe shirts, hats, etc.Find someone to talk to. Whether it's a best friend, sibling, support group, or even a doctor or psychiatrist, it's important to express your feelings and get a second opinion. If you need help with coming out, there are literally hundreds of resources online that offer tips, advice, or even personal help.

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Black
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If you sure that you are straight and you want to be with a girl, then you should understand that there are girls who like softness and sensitivity in men and there is no necessity in restructuring your personality. And moreover, sensitivity and softness don't except masculinity. If a girl says that she needs a real man, it does not mean that she needs a bodybuilder. A real man is the one who you can trust, the one you can rely on, the one who will support and protect, who will care about her. But if you want to ;look more masculine, go to the gym.

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Black
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You should sit down with one or both parents and tell them how you feel and ask them to take you to a therapist. Preferably a gender therapist but any genuine one will do for a start. If they are unfamiliar with gender issues they should be able to recommend one. Once in therapy, the psychologist will help with any further reveals as necessary. Therapy should always be the first step for any possible Transistion.

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Black
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I suggest that there is nothing wrong when two men are in love , because mostly we fall in love not with person but with the personality and what is the person likes to do. If you have some thoughts about waraing girl's clothes or high heels you need to consult the specialist to correct that.

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Black
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I am not sure, that this is the best place to ask about the love with girls. I mean, that this is very hard for the gay people to understand that. However, I think that you need to become manly and to understand that you have to ask your straight friends what to do, or may be you have some friends girls. there are so many different things that may help oyu. You may watch different movies about the manly people, you need to listen to the manly music and try to exclude the body movements. You have to have the straight posture and so on However, I think that girls like one phrase.. If you are talking to her, say that you are gay and after an hour of talking, say that you have never been with the woman but wanna try, and here you are. ;)

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