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Peter
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Well He Says He Doesnt Love Me :(

well he says he doesnt love me i made too many mistakes till now, im stubborn . i dont listen to him, i act like i dont care but i doooo. i lovee himmm. advicess plssssss. i mean if someone could help. im stuck. helpp i luvv himmmmm i cant let him goo noww :'( im cryinn right noww

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matthew
Last seen: 1 year 7 months ago
Joined: 07/08/2016 - 16:30
Well He Says He Doesnt Love Me :(

I made many mistakes in my relationship of six months which hurt my sensitive boy friend a lot. No, I didn't cheat on him but emotinally and physically, the way he expected me to behave, I let him down. I do accept that I am not a very demonstrative person though feel very very deeply for him. He is very hurt and has completely broken up with me. We have not spoken at all for the past three months ... he still does not respond to my e-mails, calls or smses.

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Richard
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Joined: 10/17/2016 - 02:00
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I am so sorry for you, you are in terrible situation. You need to talk to him, but he does not answer you. May be ask some common friends will help you to meet. It should not be weaping and begging him to come back. But you should tell him that you understand your mistakes and you are ready to correct them, because he is really important for you and you are ready to fight for him and for your love, you are ready to work for your relationships, to become a person who is worth his loving, to give him all your love and to support him in everything.

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John
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Joined: 09/02/2016 - 06:11
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try to change! try to show him that you really love him and need him! and the most important show him that you realise all your mistakes!

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 5 months ago
Joined: 07/08/2014 - 08:22
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I agree with previous posters - if you really feel that the blame for your breaking up is on you, then you have to correct the situation in all possible ways and try your best to change. To change here and now, not to convince your partner that you will change when he comes back to you. Words are words and they are worthless when they are not confirmed by your deeds. If there is an exact reason why he left you and you are able to get rid of it, do it and there will be no need in convincing your partner in your love, he will see everything and will come back.

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LittleLion
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Joined: 10/17/2016 - 02:17
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The solution to this the toughest and you need to be strong to work it out. You cannot spend your life with someone who will never love you. (Yes, you can simply drag yourself for entire life, but you will not be happy in that case).

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 5 months ago
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Well He Says He Doesnt Love Me :(

In the beginning it's hardest to NOT do anything. Your mind reels with the crazy (making up Facebook personas and "accidentally" texting your ex under the guise of a new love that doesn't exist) and the practical (just sit the ex down and explain life as it's supposed to be.) You strive to think of something - anything - that will cause a massive reboot of your ex's mind and have him or her rushing back to you. As it says in Getting Past Your Breakup, you don't want to have to babysit someone's brain. If they can't figure it out on their own, coming up with the most clever phrases and persuasive arguments isn't going to help. Take your time but believe it. Let it slowly sink in and try to do the hardest thing there is to do: Nothing. Doing nothing in a situation like this takes energy. It takes a lot of energy. You will think you spend all your time NOT doing something. And that's because you are.

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Carl
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Joined: 10/17/2016 - 02:17
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“I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.” ― Marilyn Monroe. So, do you understand, that if you are not together, then, may be this is the fate. “Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together,but do so with all your heart.” ― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations. I think that everything is in your hands. Talk with him and it may change everything. And also show your love. Words without action is nothing.

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Nill
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Joined: 10/17/2016 - 02:17
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I am very sorry you suffer but it is life and different things happen with us. And love is not easy.....if you split up it means that he is not your person. i know that it is painful and it makes you cry...it is feeling and you need time to cope with emotions and feelings. You have fresh wound and it bleeding. You are brave if you pretend that it means nothing for you. Give yourself time. Be strong and at the end you will receive your reward. I beg you not to call him back...if you start act like this he start to hate you.

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 5 months ago
Joined: 07/08/2014 - 08:22
Well He Says He Doesnt Love Me :(

Sometimes something very strange happens to people and they start to say they do not love ones they have lived for many ages. It can be caused by the fact that they are just tired of the routine and they want to get rid of that. My personal attitude to those words is very negative , because i even can use this phrase to tell my partner, but this happens only if he drives me crazy and i am too nervous to say that i really love him and see no life without him. But who i do kidding, i mean that i love him very much, but if we split up i would not cry him a river.

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 5 months ago
Joined: 07/08/2014 - 08:22
Well He Says He Doesnt Love Me :(

You do not love him. This is the statement that you need to learn and remember for ever. There are so many sool guys that you should be not stuck on that one. I do not think that this is so hard. You need to love yourself much better and I hope that you will survive and everything will be ok with you. Love yourself more!

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