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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 10 months ago
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Well He Says He Doesnt Love Me :(

Unfortnately it happens all the time. He doesn't love you or he wouldn't have told you this. Don't beg him back or hold out hopes that he will change his mind. The best thing you can do for yourself is to let go quietly and try not to lay eyes on him or speak to him again. I know that sounds harsh but it is the best way to get over him. You have to think of him as being dead. If he doesn't want you anymore make sure he never gets another opportunity to do so.

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 10 months ago
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Well He Says He Doesnt Love Me :(

You ARE strong enough to survive this! You have so much life in you, even though it seems hopeless and sad right now. Dig deep, and go beyond where you’ve ever gone before. I know you can do it. When he says he doesn’t love you anymore, you need to connect with people who DO love you. Find your tribe, talk to your loved ones, make new friends. Start over — I believe in you. Call your two closest friends or family members, and reach out for help. You WILL find the help you need. It will be hard and painful, but I know you will survive this.

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Steve
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Well He Says He Doesnt Love Me :(

Yeah, it is quite a difficult situation, I suppose. People often make mistakes, to eer is human. You should not blame yourself, in general, blaming yourself is the way to tension, stress and frustration. If you love this man, just let him go. If he really loves you (even if he does not say it), he will come back. Of course, it may be difficult to be left alone, but time will pass by and you will feel relief, look back and smile. All in all, if there is real love between two people they do not pay attention to mistakes or negative traits of each other, they will enjoy each other. Probably, it is not your man.

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 10 months ago
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Well He Says He Doesnt Love Me :(

I understand you because i was in such situation. Do not worry so much, please. Talk with him and say all that you feel to him. Say all that you wright here. But to tell the truth if he really does not love you anymore nothing can help. Gust try to let him go. If person does not love you you could not male him do it. Try to find some other man. He will help you to cope with it. Because i understand how you feel right now. As for me i loved man who even does not love me, and i knew about this. But it was my love forever. I thought so. But i was so stupid, really. But now i am happy because it is very important in our life to let people go.

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Ben29
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Joined: 10/17/2016 - 02:17
Well He Says He Doesnt Love Me :(

Matthew, calm down, he is not the last one in your life. You should take it easy, and let the situation go. If he is the man for you, you will meet him in the future, and you will be together. But there is one more variant, you were not born to be together. Don't mind it so much, and try to move on.

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 10 months ago
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Well He Says He Doesnt Love Me :(

First of all,you have to decide for yourself-you want this dude in your life or not?Is he right,that you are pretty stubborn?If it so-what you want to do about it?I mean if you like (or even love) this dude,you must want to do something about it in order for him to stay.He does have a right to tell you what's wrong and what's right in his opinion in you,and you have the same rights too.If you want him to be a part of your reality-then it's definitely a time for you to think about a big change in your life,in yourself.Then and only then,it'll be alright,so go for it. ;)

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 10 months ago
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Well He Says He Doesnt Love Me :(

Oh, that's the matter of a broken heart. Unfortunately there is no an appropriate advice in such situation. Of course I could say that everything will be okey, time will cure everything, but it is a bullshit! It wouldn't! You will suck for a long time, before your life somehow works out itself. Though you love him, and he doesn't it is no use to keep him and feel obsessed about him. It is pathetic and wouldn't help, believe me. The best way out is to go to sleep and start a new day, them again and again. If he is your man he will be with you. Destiny is a clever thing you know? It knows better whom to give and whom to take. If it happened, then it had to happen. Accept it!

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 10 months ago
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Well He Says He Doesnt Love Me :(

Oh, I am very sorry you suffer but it is life and different things happen with us. And love is not easy.....if you split up it means that he is not your person. i know that it is painful and it makes you cry...it is feeling and you need time to cope with emotions and feelings.
You have fresh wound and it bleeding. You are brave if you pretend that it means nothing for you. Give yourself time. Be strong and at the end you will receive your reward. I beg you not to call him back...if you start act like this he start to hate you.

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WilliamLewis
Last seen: 9 months 5 days ago
Joined: 09/25/2017 - 20:49
Well He Says He Doesnt Love Me

I know how painful it is to hear that he does not love you. But if your feelings are sincere, then you must hold on. First of all, you need to sit down and calmly discuss everything, let your partner tell you that he does not like in you, and you can make your conclusions about this. You can explain to him that you constantly need to work on relationships. Relationships are not an easy thing. Perhaps now it seems to you that everything is too complicated, but in a couple of years you will laugh together at how stupid you were. Relationships should not end so quickly and without a good reason, it's too wrong

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WilliamLewis
Last seen: 9 months 5 days ago
Joined: 09/25/2017 - 20:49
Well He Says He Doesnt Love Me

I know how painful it is to hear that he does not love you. But if your feelings are sincere, then you must hold on. First of all, you need to sit down and calmly discuss everything, let your partner tell you that he does not like in you, and you can make your conclusions about this. You can explain to him that you constantly need to work on relationships. Relationships are not an easy thing. Perhaps now it seems to you that everything is too complicated, but in a couple of years you will laugh together at how stupid you were. Relationships should not end so quickly and without a good reason, it's too wrong

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