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Peter
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what to choose?

I think that surrogacy is the best variant because this child will be yours, he will look like you and you will be a real father for him. But addoption is also good variant. Because it is the cance to make this world better and make one child happy. You can help the society when you adopt the child. You chose the best destiny for such children. And i think that is so good. In our time many peple chose exactly adoption. Espessially you can see such situation in the life of different famous people. They have a lot of money and they want to help children find the best family for them. I think that it is very nice.

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Benny
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Joined: 07/18/2016 - 14:07
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i think that the best way of these two is definitely the adoption. for me surrogacy is something like buying the child. and adoption is great. you help one child to find his house and family and i think that it is really great. what can be better when you see in sad eyes of the child happiness. when i will be ready for the child, i will definitely use it. i understand people who want to have genetically their children but i dont think that this fact really means something. if you are really eager to have the child then nothing will be very important for you. when you will hold him you will not care about anything. you will just be happy.

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Bob
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I think surrogasy is better. Because as I read. In gestational surrogacy, Surrogate Mother (Gestational Carrier) carries a child not genetically related to her. The child might be biologically related to the Intended Parents, in case the Intended Mother donates her eggs and the Intended Father donates his sperm, or to the Egg Donor and to the Intended Father OR to the Sperm Donor and Intended Mother. Gestational surrogacy is absolutely legal in Ukraine, but it's an option only for officially married couples and single women. No specific permission from any regulatory body is required for that. The prospective surrogate should be 20 - 40 years old. She must be mentally and somatically healthy and have at least one healthy child of her own. Surrogate may have no relation to commissioning parents. The marital status of the surrogate is irrelevant.

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 5 months ago
Joined: 07/08/2014 - 08:22
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Both ways are beautiful,so it's for you to choose what do you want to see in your kid-just a little child or something resembling to you or your partner.Many men are cycled on this thought,that their kid suppose to have something in common with them,when it comes to looks.But you know,that sometimes a kid can be his mother's copy-would you like to see your surrogate mother everyday near you? :) I mean,there are always two sides of any problem.So,as easily as this,you can go and adopt some kid,who's left somewhere without no love and family.Aren't your heart cracking over stuff like that?Mine does,so two years ag o I've adopted a little baby girl along with my partner.But for our next step we are considering a surrogacy now-will see.

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 5 months ago
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As for me I dont know much about it but still i support adopting. Aside from the anxiety a couple will likely feel during IVF treatment and throughout the pregnancy, surrogacy is one of the most expensive solutions to infertility and is an option that not every couple can afford. Additionally, a surrogate and the intended parents may find themselves in conflict if there is a disagreement as to just how the pregnancy should be managed. Some intended parents like to be able to control the entire pregnancy, while a surrogate may have her own ideas about how to handle her pregnancy. Think twice, tomy mind it's better to give child who doesnt have parents, proper love and care.

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Floyd
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Joined: 01/31/2018 - 14:30
Adoption and surrogacy has

Adoption and surrogacy has different pros and cons. If you want to adopt a child, then everything will be really good! Only this child has blood and gene from other people who have given up on him. You can grow it as you want. You can give education for the child, you can bring him to the right path. But in any case, when he grows up, he may have the desire to find his real parents. When you use the program for surrogacy - you'll be getting your baby! In addition, the child will have your gene and partly your blood. Of course, it is quite expensive, but in any case, it seems to me - it is really a good option. But I can not impose my opinion to you. I can only share with you my advice. So think and choose the right way.

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Calvin
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Joined: 01/31/2018 - 14:24
First of all, the services of

First of all, the services of surrogate mothers are used by rich people - not a cheap service. Also, it can be cowardly people who are able to have their children, but are afraid to give birth themselves, for example, do not want to spoil the figure. This is often possible learn from the interview of actresses who plan to have a surrogate child. Many remember the story of actress Marlene Dietrich - a beautiful breast before giving birth turned into the "ears of a spaniel", which she used to tape, and do not want to repeat her tragedy. Although the breast can hang and without delivery, and someone even after the birth of three children, there is no stretching. However, the services of surrogate mothers are most often addressed by those who simply can not themselves give birth to a child due to health problems. For them, this is often the only way out. They, of course, can adopt a child, but this will be someone else's child, and a surrogate mother can tolerate a child who was conceived with the help of an egg and the sperm of a husband and wife, and will be their biological.

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