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Richard
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What to do if my partner doesn't like children?

This is a real problem, man. Well, are you sure that this young, so to say ma, who hates children id=s that one you really need in your life? Because your daughter will be present in it forever and what about him? As for me the situation is quite simple, really. If you do not really love him and do not want to connect your life with this man, you are just messing around them there is no serious problems. He doesn't even need to meet your girl. Well, if you do live him, then it sucks. I think in this situation any human being is not in power to help you)

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Richard
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What to do if my partner doesn't like children?

You know I think that you should just wait. Maybe you are more mature than your partner (I don't mean the number written in your or his passport, moral matureness does not depend on age) and now he thinks that he does not want to have children and parenting is not for him but in a couple of years it may change. If he is the person who you see as a potential second father of your children, then give him a chance and wait. You are gays and you are able to have children any other way than through adoption or surrogacy, and it can be done later, so don't worry.

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WilliamLewis
Last seen: 9 months 5 days ago
Joined: 09/25/2017 - 20:49
What to do if my partner doesn't like children?

Well, your boyfriend is not obliged to love someone else's child, and in general children. But if he loves you, then he will have to accept that you have a daughter. He must respect you and your family. For a girl, you will forever be a daddy, but not the fact that this guy will be with you until the end of your days. Making a choice between a child and a loved one is not right. He should not have put you before that choice. He must understand that you need both him and her equally. Talk to him and try to explain,  that it's okay when a father loves his daughter. Moreover, if she lives with you, it does not mean that he will have to take care of her

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Karl
Last seen: 8 months 2 weeks ago
Joined: 09/29/2017 - 16:03
Don't want a baby

good evening. to my mind, if your partner doesn't want to have a baby, you should think about your future as a family. Family is very important part of our life. But family includes your, your husband and your baby. As for me family without baby is not family. Just think about it. I am stranger for you, but just think, and discuss it with him.

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Floyd
Last seen: 5 months 1 week ago
Joined: 01/31/2018 - 14:30
You know I think that you

You know I think that you should just wait. Maybe you are more mature than your partner (I don't mean the number written in your or his passport, moral matureness does not depend on age) and now he thinks that he does not want to have children and parenting is not for him but in a couple of years it may change. If he is the person who you see as a potential second father of your children, then give him a chance and wait.

You are gays and you are able to have children any other way than through adoption or surrogacy, and it can be done later, so don't worry.

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Calvin
Last seen: 4 months 3 weeks ago
Joined: 01/31/2018 - 14:24
I want to say that every

I want to say that every person needs time for thinking. It is good that your partner is honest with you from the beginning. But on the other hand, people change. I think the only thing you can do is to speak with your partner about how your feelings, expectations and needs. Maybe he needs to see what a baby means to him through your eyes. In addition, it is very important for you to understand his fears and hesitations. You may discover that his biggest reasons against children are things that are solvable and will require just some time, effort and work. You need to show your partner that you believe in him and show him what he will become incredible father and, of course, assure him that he will not do it alone, but with your support.

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