I can share my story. Maybe it's strange, but I met my partner accidentally inside the coffee shop. We both chose a new type of coffee to try. Then he asked the seller to make a cup of coffee for him with what he chose. The seller did it for him, he took his cup of coffee and sat down at a table near the window. Then I also took a cup of coffee and sat down next to him. We started to talk and get to know each other. In the course of our conversation, we learned that each of us really are lonely now ... So, that was our first date))) Maybe it's a little weird or stupid, but I still have so many romantic memories of this ... :cheer:
Yep, he pulled me over on a traffic stop. He's a cop. Not for speeding, thank goodness, but for not using my turn signal which I actually DID use but it was busted out when a kid had run into my car. So, we didn't meet on very friendly terms!
I meet him when we were still in high school, we both knew that the other was special immediately. However, our lives pulled us in different directions. It was 2 years, before we came across each other again, we were living 800 miles apart, and both thousands of miles from our home town. we have been together 1 1/2 years.
Well, if I say that I understood at first sight that it was love,, it would be a lie. He was just one of my friends, a member of my usual company, a part of my everyday surrounding. But he was kinder to me than the rest of people I've ever known. To tell the truth, nobody ever was kind to me. Nobody ever cared whether I exist. And he did. Not because he liked me (he fell in love with me much later than I fell in love with him, I had to fight for my happiness), just because it was his nature - to be gentle, to be polite, to care about other people. And that's why I love him.
It all happens in the exact same ways it does for straight people. Some find it online, some people find it in a bar, some people get in fender benders with each other and end up falling in love. There's a million crazy ways people have met and fallen in love, just be patient, it'll happen.
I met my boyfriend in a club, I knew he was gay before I met him as he was a friend if a friend and he'd seen my Facebook profile and had been asking out mutual friend if he could meet me. We met and just clicked instantly, it's been quite a rollercoaster! We've only been together 5 months but I know for a fact I'm in love with him, i've had long term relationships in the past and I thought I knew what love was, holy cr*p was I wrong! What I feel for him puts every other feeling i've ever had in my entire life to shame!!
You should not worry, first of all. Start spending more time with the guy that you are interested in. You may want to just become friends with him at first, and don't start out by going all in. Invite him to your house and just act as regular friends, play video games, maybe go to a movie. If at this point he seems to be especially close to you (laughing at all your jokes, making contact when it's not necessary, etc.), then you can be fairly sure he feels about you the same way, but be careful. Some guys can be naturally like this.If he does feel the same way, take things slowly; go to each others' house, and just hang out: become comfortable with one another.
I love such things, because i like to know some romantic stories of how people get acquainted and how their love is developing and that is really marvelous. i have not found my true love now, but i am not very disappointed , because i suggest that love is the thing that not you, but she finds you. I believe that if there is the person who loves you or there will be the love from the first sight. I do really believe that there will be a person who will see me and we will decide from the first sight that we want to be together till the end of our lives.
After a night of drinking I crashed at a friend's place. He lived close to the bar we were at. That night it was the "blizzard of the century" and we trapped in his apartment. Completely isolated in a silent white world.So we talked. And talked. And talked some more. We talked and talked for a week. Until the roads opened up again and my roommate came and picked me up. We talked until we fell in love. We both knew it.Soon after I called and asked him out. We had dinner and I went home with him again, but we didn't talk at all. 8 years later, still together. :P
I think that there can not be a special place where you can find your second half, it can happen anytime or anywhere, even in a night club ot at work though you do not suppose these places to be appropriate for such meeting. You know, there is a statement "love comes when you do not wait for it". Do not focus on this meeting, live your usual life and one day you will meet. I would advice you to visit the places you like or enjoy, it may be a museum, an art gallery, a park, an exhibition or a cinema. Of course, we are the creators of our destiny, but I think that it does not work with love, one day you will happen to be in the right place and in the right time.
You know I don't think that there is some appropriate place where people meet their second halves.
it is always unexpected... my friend have met his future second half by the phone. he dialed a wrong number...just an accident.
He was sorry to disturb him because it was late night already but voice on the other side asked maybe he needs help if he calls so late to someone and after this talk they are together four years already.
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