I want to learn information about our possibilities and chances to become parents, but to be honest, I do not know where to start. Which steps should become first if we want to have a child?
First of all you should decide with your partner will it be surrogacy program of adoption. And then find out about the next steps. But seems like you should firstly convince your partner to become parents together ;)
Oh, you are right! I am so impatient. I was waiting for a long time already and I need to wait more, but it is so difficult, that I can hardly explain you.
before taking a final decision you should understand what method you are ready to choose. you should see all pluses and minuses, if there is ability ask other people about their experience in this or that method. i think at first it is needed to study all possible information and than to take a final decision.
First, you must understand you wanted the child or not,are you ready for this important step in your life.Then you need to decide how the child will be born.It would be surrogacy or adoption.First you need -to start with these questions
Also you can consult with that couple (better from your city) who has already become parents, by adoption and by surrogasy. you will know what problem will wait for you and what way to choose
are you sure you want? If you are just a choose the way which is most acceptable for you. What way do you want to go adoption? surrogacy, foster care, co-parenting? What you are ready for? it is important to understand first for what you have money, strength and passion because all these ways are completely different.
If here anybody now who got a child by surrogacy? I haven`t got a partner now,but when I`ll find my true love i`ll insist on having a child.I have always wanted to have a true family and I think my dreams much come true.But i don`t want to adopt a child, not because I loath. If we have an opportunity to have our own children why not :) So can you give some information about such clinics and surrogacy. Is it worth or not? How much money does it cost? What county is better to choose in such area of medicine..
You can find all this information on the Internet. In addition, you have only two ways to become a father. You can use the adoption or surrogacy program through the clinic. Both of these ways are really good. But only you can choose what you want. Because each way has pros and cons. So you have to think very well. And you have to get information in any way. Then you will be able to make the right choices) In addition, you can talk to someone who has used the adoption, or the one who used the surrogacy program. So, you will have success) :cheer:
First of all you need to get training. It's really important. And it will help you move forward. You need to understand all the processes that you will receive with your child. So it will help you avoid stressful situations. Because to be parents - it's really hard. But it's worth it to have children. In addition, I advise you to use the courses or books that will help you learn everything you need about the children. You should know how to monitor your child every day! All this affects their health. So, both of you need to learn first! :)
start from the beginning and you will not miss the right way. At first it is information. When we don't know something we start to read information about it or we ask people who can know something, we search for forums to read and to talk their, look for agencies which provide services we need. So, first it is always a lot of information. But it is important not to lose in this sea of information and to define what is really good and what's not good.
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