I agree with you. Adoption is also a really good option to have a child. In addition, it is much cheaper. I'd rather spend the money on my child than I will give it to some clinic. But in any case, many people opt for surrogacy because they are able to get their children genetically. In addition, many people want to have a newborn baby. So they are willing to pay so much money for it! In any case, each of us has our own choices. So, we are able to make our own decision. I will choose adoption anyway. And I advise many prospective parents to do it well. ;)
I'm against surrogacy!!!!A bunch of cons! The child in the womb feels a close relationship with his mother. Breakup after giving birth will certainly affect the health of the child, which subsequently may result in serious psychological problems.Every child has the right to the attention and care from their parents. And the care children receive in the first place, from the soul and body of his mother. Children born to a Muslim woman, from the first moments of the formation of consciousness, deprived of all this.
Surrogate motherhood has a negative impact on the psyche of the woman and her level of spirituality. Natural emotions of tenderness that arise in her to gestate a child, a woman is forced to suppress, not to give them development, otherwise parting with the child will be tragic. A woman learns emotional unconcern, indifference, selfishness. Material interests suppress femininity, spirituality.
for many people genes are really important. some want their genes to love futher in their child, some are afraid that adopted child can have some illnesses on the genetical level. the are a lot of different reasons why they do so. everything depends on people and their wishes.
Some people are against surrogacy for a couple of reasons.
1) It's unethical to pay money for human beings. Paying someone to carry a baby for you is in that same category.
2) It creates an adoptee. When the surrogate gives birth, the new 'mother' has to adopt the child, whether her own eggs were used or not. There are a lot of gray areas in terms of legality and ethics with regard to surrogacy and none of them sit well with me. Besides, there are plenty of kids in foster care who need homes and loving families...why create new ones?
3) It's unfair to the children. Many children birthed by surrogates are never told their true parentage. If the eggs and/or sperm were donated, the children have no idea what their medical histories are or who they're actually biologically related to. It's a mess.
4) It's creepy. I know that's a childish thing to say; I can't help how I feel.
there are a few aspects due to which surrogacy is better for majority of Intendant Parents. All of us want to have biologically related baby and it is natural instinct and surrogacy programs give us such ability to have baby with our genes. One more (and not less bigger plus) is that you are with your baby since the first minutes of child's life and it provides strong and tight connection between parents and children.
There are advantages and disadvantages to each type of surrogacy, so the best option will depend upon each specific situation. One of the advantages of traditional surrogacy is that it typically involves a lower cost that gestational surrogacy. This is because there is no donation fee, and if the first effort at insemination does not work, it can be attempted again in a matter of weeks rather than several months.
In addition, with the process of traditional surrogacy, it is unlikely that the surrogate will need to take additional fertility medication. It is important to note, though, that with traditional surrogacy, the surrogate will be the child's biological mother. With gestational surrogacy, because the sperm and the egg both come from the intended child's biological parents, the surrogate will not be biologically related to the child and is only used for carrying purposes. This can be of extreme importance to many parents.
People prefer surrogacy because it is the only chance for gay person to have a child who will be biologically his. Of course, it will not be a common child (because for two men it is impossible to have a common biological child), but one of two will be a biological father. And if it is a principal question for you to have your own child and you are afraid that you will not love a child who is not genetically yours, you are afraid of some genetic aspects, or you don't think that you will find a common language with a child of older age.
I think that everything depends on people and their perception of life, personal points of view. Adoption and surrogacy programs have their pros and cons. But personally I would prefer adoption, because it is the great chance to give new life to the children, who have unsuccessful destiny and were abandoned by their biological parents. There is no importance for me concerning the genetical relation to a child. The main point is to give children upbringing, education, and love. In addition, adoption is the best variant for people who do not have financial possibility to carry surrogacy program.
I know that today surrogacy is not something strange and unusual for our time. On the contrary, in many situations it is to survive for hundreds of families, in particular for mothers, unable to find offspring and continue the race.For parents, surrogacy is a chance to have a long-awaited child, even if not in the traditional way, but, nevertheless, they are considered biological parents. On the negative side, they are just in the wrong choice of a surrogate mother and that surrogacy is a costly procedure.Today, there are a large number of companies who provide services on the organization of the process of surrogacy. If absolutely necessary option, you should contact a company that deals with the selection of surrogate mothers and contractual arrangements.
i really do not understand it very good. i am big fan of surrogacy and i think that it will be really very good for the child. because he doenst have parents, he needs love and care. and when you adopt this little child and see hope in his eyes i think that it is great. maybe some people think that they should have genetically their children, the will know that they have their habits and all that stuff. but i think tht they worry too much about stupid things.
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