I do really have several nice theories. Not long ago I had a discussion with my friend about that. She is a girl by the way. Well she said that the most common reason for girls visiting gay parties is that they are tired of the relationships and are greatly eager to spend time without men asking them out, or teasing them. It like night with girls, you know? Dancing, drinks and no MEN (straight in particular). Also she says that gay guys are much more pleasant that the straight ones and they are happy to relax in our company. All in all, I guess that is just the way to spend time for themselves only)
And I can't see,why they should not do that. B) I mean,come on,I myself have many girl-friends and we partied together a lot,including only gay parties,to which they came with me.It's always fun for me to talk with them,spend some time,and it's that way for them too!One of my best friends Susie-we are having a whole lottta fun together and all my gay friends just love her,she's real and open,and sincere,I love that girl! ;) We always have many things to tal about,common problems,she asks me something,i ask her.She's a real friend of mine and I'm so lucky to have her! :kiss:
If to be completely honest, I have never met a straight at a gay party. And did not hear from friend that straight guys visit our parties. The only straight who go there were girls but guys never. As for girls it is quite obvious, they simply want to rest from making out, or they are bored with straight. There could be a lot of theories. As for guys, straight ones, I think they might come only because they understand they are not straight)))) As for me there is no other opinion, couse it is strange to see straight men on our parties.
Honestly it is strange for me to hear that. Because I rarely see straight guys on our parties. Or better to say I have never seen any of straight having fun on our party. But if such occasions happened, I guess we may claim about turning a straight into a gay, don’t you think so? Maybe a guy understands somehow that he is not completely satisfied with the life he has. And he turns to us to look for better life, new emotions and experiences. Well, God only knows why they really visit our parties)) :P :P :P
well you know when i was thinking about before i was also always wondering why they do it and why they come and you know i think that it is not understandable for me and i think that you know what i am talking about. of course maybe for them it is interesting or something like that but i do not think that it is really right , i think that they shall have some other reason for that but i do not know. i think that it would be easier just to ask them when they come because i think that they know but of course maybe they would not give us the answer for that , i do not know what to tell you about it. thank you for your attention, i hope that we would know that.
With heterosexual girls it's easy: they go to a gay club for two reasons. First: at the invitation of a gay friend. The second: here, and only here, on the dance floor, they will never have a sweaty peasant behind them. Nobody will stick with indecent proposals. Tired of these men, the girls go here just to dance or celebrate the holiday. At the same time I noticed two kinds of girls of similar sexual orientation: joyful (because of the opportunity to just polish the dance floor) and crying (with the cry of the soul "This is my ideal man, why does he kiss with another man?"). However, that there go heterosexuals , quite quickly, heterosexual guys got to know and began to go to gay clubs to make an interesting acquaintance with the girls. The choice is extremely true: there is practically no competition.
i think girls come to gay parties, because they feel comfortable there. gays are more sincere and opened to other people and new acquaintances, than straight boys. straights think in mostly ways only about sex and fun. not all girls want to find sex for one night, some of them go to the parties just to have fun with their friends, meet new people and just relax. why do you think so many girls have got a gay friend? because they feel comfortable with them, gay won't betray her and won't take her boyfriend. gay can recommend what to wear, but in the same time gay can lend shoulder and listen about problems and support in any situation. i think girls rely on gays more, than on straights.
You know to be honest, I cannot say exactly that all straight people who go to gay parties. May be some of them feel something inside their minds, some desire, some feeling. May be they suspect that they are not so straight as they used to think they are :cheer: Some people are born gays, some become them. But we all know that it may be hard to accept this aspect of your personality.
They are afraid of confessing themselves who they really are, they are not sure in it, so they go to different gay clubs and parties just to "check" themselves. And sometimes it really turns out that they are gay.
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