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Mark
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Will it take too long?

Tell me about your experience. If we choose adoption with my partner , how many time will it take before we can become parents? Is it possible to take a newborn? How? Documents and all other procedures take too much time and a baby will grew without us during this time, right ?

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Steve
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Will it take too long?

everything is possible but you will have a lot of obstacles and there are a lot of aspects which you should find out. At first what did you choose local adoption or international one? Is it allowed in your country to adopt children by same sex couples or at least for single man? Are you married or in civil relations? Do you have place in your house for child? are you financially stable? think you should start with answers for these questions.

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Tom
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Will it take too long?

it is difficult to answer your question, while we do not know where are you from, but you should be ready for being patient. It will take some time.

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Mark
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Everything depends on the country and its law which can change from year to year. I know couple which waited for 3 years to adopt a child and than law suddenly changed and they have lost all chances to adopt this child. It was painful moment and they have lost 3 years of their life and have got zero result(

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Cock
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Will it take too long?

I have no such experience.But I have friends who have a baby.They quickly adapted.Documents done very quickly and saw her baby immediately.You will still show,though not immediately give,if it will be surrogacy

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Mark
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Will it take too long?

i think it's rather long and complicated procedure. you should be prepares morally and financially. But this is possible.
But why you don't want surrogacy? why stop on adoption? i need your answer for me because now i and my partner make choice

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Mark
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[quote="Pablitto" post=637]i think it's rather long and complicated procedure. you should be prepares morally and financially. But this is possible.
But why you don't want surrogacy? why stop on adoption? i need your answer for me because now i and my partner make choice[/quote]
We could not choose a way to become parents for a long time, but then decided to choose adoption. I can hardly explain why, maybe because we feel it will be right to make a child happy if we both want to create a real family too, so why not? Maybe our next child will be through surrogacy :)

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Mark
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Will it take too long?

It all depends on your efforts and from the clinic, which offers its services to you. Typically, the documents do not take so much time. As soon as you collect a complete package of all documents, you give advance. And then you go to the next step. You expect your child 9 months. So you have enough time to be ready) In any case, I would like to have a child as soon as possible. But I still can not do it because I do not have enough money with my partner. But we are both working on a solution to this problem very hard) Also, I do a little envious of couples who already have children. They really enjoy family life! They have a complete family! And the child - that's what will make them happy and much better! The baby always makes us better! :)

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Mark
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Will it take too long?

You know it is difficult to answer your question, while we do not know where are you from, but you should be ready for being patient. It will take some time. But i want to say that everything is possible but you will have a lot of obstacles and there are a lot of aspects which you should find out. At first what did you choose local adoption or international one? Is it allowed in your country to adopt children by same sex couples or at least for single man? Are you married or in civil relations? Do you have place in your house for child? are you financially stable? think you should start with answers for these questions.

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Mark
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Will it take too long?

You know everything is possible but you will have a lot of obstacles and there are a lot of aspects which you should find out. At first what did you choose local adoption or international one? Is it allowed in your country to adopt children by same sex couples or at least for single man? Are you married or in civil relations? Do you have place in your house for child? are you financially stable? think you should start with answers for these questions. And i think it's rather long and complicated procedure. you should be prepares morally and financially. But this is possible. But why you don't want surrogacy? why stop on adoption? i need your answer for me because now i and my partner make choice.

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Mark
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Will it take too long?

Everything is possible in this world-you just have to do what you want the right way,then it will be o to the k. :) This question is definitely depends on which country are you going to make it real.Laws are different,just like different are the people living in each country.There are ways in some of them to..let's just say,talk it out. ;) I think,it is possible to adopt a newborn-if it's known already,that mother will give him to the orphanage.At least you can try to do that.In our case the adoption process took a little over 7 months.I don't think it's that long,especially when you're talking about a dream come true for you and a kid too.It is all good in our family now,we're truly happy every day that we live on this planet-wish you the same. ;)

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