[quote="zag" post=551]I have never sex without love and I don't know what is it.I always had sex with someone that I love.This is probably two different sensations: how can you do it without love? :ohmy:[/quote]
It is good that you enjoyed sex with people you love. But for example, you start dating with someone. You like him, you have learnt each other, had several dates and now he is trying to seduce you, to invite you home, he wants to get to another stage, to have sex. You like him very much, but you can not say you love him now. What would you do? Will you tell him 'honey, I have strong feelings to you, I like you, I want you, but I will not have sex with you now, because I am not sure I love you. I need true deep love to try sex with you for the first time' ?
Really? Would you act like that? I am just interested.
[quote="Don" post=1166][quote="Lazybird" post=370]No, I don't agree with you. It's not fair according to a man who loves you. Then better go to the speciallized agency and use the services of such kind of activity.[/quote]
I am not liying to someone to trying to pretend I am in love when I am not . It is mutual desire to have sex, the other partners are not madly in love with me or willing to create family with me. so you think it is wrong? I should wait for my true love sitting at home and forgetting about sex?
No, thank you, I will not use any services, it is silly![/quote]
it is okay if you enjoy pleasures of sex with someone you are not going to be till the death. It is life and it is normal thing to be able to have fun, to get pleasure, especially if you are honest with that other guy and not going to pretend and play his feelings. why not? I think it is okay. when you meet your second half, your love you will not need this anymore and you will see the difference.
of course it differs and very much! i noticed that even i don't have so much passion when i am not with my beloved person. i love to have intimate relationships when i love and when i am loved by my beloved personn.and there are no other variants for me.
To those who said that guys will answer sex without love, I'm a guy and I choose LOVE WITHOUT SEX.Love is the most important thing in my eyes. I need love but I want sex. Need is more important than want.I could have sex without love for days at end but I'll eventually get bored.
But I'll never get bored with having love every second of my life.Like someone said, I can pleasure myself anytime anywhere lol that's why I choose love over sex. So can`t make it withou feelings I even can`t excite if I don`t love the person. I think people who do it without love are animals( sorry if I sound rude.)
i can not say that sex with partner whom you love is something differ from sex with partner. the feelings during the sex is differ, but sex is the same. i have sex without love a lot of time, and i can say that it's great, nit because it without love, just because it's sex. it can be spoiled by many things but not by absence of love
Every relationship starts without love. First you just have to like a person to ask them out, after that if you keep going out with the same person you learn about them. Eventually the two will like each other more and more then it becomes love. If the two get on each others nerves after a few dates it was not meant to be. People date without love all the time! It may be a crush, or you may really like this person, and you may or may not grow to love them. If you don't then it wasn't meant to be.How many of your relationships started without love but eventually it came? How long did it take?
There are many different people in the word, and sex means something different to all of us, so if you’re wondering if you can have sex without love, there are some things you really need to ask yourself. Sex is experienced differently by everyone. For some, it’s a way of passing time, for others, it’s a way of relieving stress, and for some it’s a matter of enjoying a lustful moment with a complete stranger.It’s not that way for everyone, though. I, for one, am terrible at sex without love. I’ve done it, sure. I have had one night stands before, but I never enjoyed the way they made me feel. For me, sex is intimate and too personal to be shared with just anyone.I have friends, though, who don’t feel so strongly about a one night stand. To them, sex has many different sides and it doesn’t always have to be with someone you love.Honestly, I kind of admire those friends and their freewill thinking. However, if you’re trying to figure out what kind of person you are when it comes to sex, then here are some questions you should start asking yourself.
I don't judge people who have sex without love. But I am really sorry about them. Then why to have sex? For some physical aspect? And don't you think that you deserve more? Each person deserves to feel it when the one he loves touches him, holds him, kisses him, when two people get so close that nothing ever will separate them from each other and it concerns not only their bodies but their hearts first of all. And if physical pleasure is so important for you, then you should understand that even physically it will be a different kind of pleasure when you have sex with the one you love
To have sex with anyone, you have to trust them to some degree. Trust and guardedness work in balance anytime you’re in a vulnerable position (and despite whatever mental maneuvering you do to depersonalize sex, it inherently, unavoidably involves vulnerability) – the less you trust, the more guarded you are. The more you trust your partner, the more you feel safe letting loose, both in terms of your actual, physical safely and in terms of the things you let yourself feel, and say. No matter what kind of sex you enjoy, the more you feel free to completely surrender yourself to the moment, the better the experience will be. When you fully trust someone, that’s a lot easier to do.
I think it's an undeniable fact that sex is better with romantic chemistry [ i.e. much more than 'you're hot, lets do it... someone who gives you the feels] of some kind. Be it your longterm boyfriend, a guy you've been crushing on for ages who's recently single, an ex-boyfriend, whatever. Being with someone who incites an emotional response is like adding another dimension to sex. It's incomparable.I have better sex with people I've been seeing for awhile, because over time we come to learn how to push one another's buttons in just the right way.Being in love adds a layer of intimacy that can really intensify sex. It transforms the act from fun sweaty exercise to an expression of love, all tangled up in all the emotions inherent in a loving relationship... as well as being fun sweaty exercise.
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