There is only one solution in this terrible situation. You have to leave him anyway, because if he did something once, he will do it once more. You have to calm down, and assess the situation with a cool head. You should live your life, but not with him. Good luck, buddy!
You have two choices: give up and forget or forgive and keep the family together.
In fact, just need anyway. And it is not for him, but for themselves. For resentment destroys you from the inside, poisoning the existence and prevents a full life. Of course, it is not easy to do. And at once is unlikely to succeed. It takes time, self-love and the desire to live. Only when you forgive him in your heart, your life to start a new stage.Simple - it does not always mean to believe again and start living together. Even if he is ever lost your confidence, and you have not left him a single drop of love, and your plans in any case does not include the joint life, you must forgive. Forgive and let go on all four sides. :huh: :huh:
It's a truly painful topic for me,cause I've used to never forgive the infidelity.But one time I've broke my position in this question,for a guy I loved very much-and it didn't end up well anyway.He loved me too,but one day started to act strangely,and as the time passed by,his behavior changed enormously.Soon I've found out,that my suspicions were correct and wanted to end it all.He begged me not to and asked for a second chance,so I did it.Couple of months later we still broke up-cause you just can't build up something new on the old bones.
I strongly believe that only you can find the answer to this question. Although if I were you and my partner would cheat on me, I would not forgive him. I have strong principles and I know who is who. I will never forgive my friends who betray me, moreover never forgive my love. It is LOVE, and if someone betrays it what forgiveness are you mentioning. That is why, decide for yourself, but think twice, if he betrayed you once, then what keeps him to do it for the second time.
I do not know how you can forgive a person after treason. How can you look into his eyes afterwards? In fact, you will constantly imagine him with someone else. It does not matter if he regrets, if he did this once, then he can do it again and again. What is the meaning of the relationship, if a person can not be loyal? I understand your feelings and I'm so sorry. If such a situation happened to me, I would be depressed, upset and defeated, but would never forgive. Maybe we could stay friends with that guy. But a relationship with someone you can not trust is wrong. Yes?
You should remember that the main role in the construction of a new life will lie on you. Find the strength to do it. Because you have a whole life ahead! And most importantly, that in this life you have not lost trust in people. Of course, it is not necessary to rush to a whirlpool with a head, you need to constantly think whether the person of your trust, but if you will be completely closed from all other people, you will be very unhappy. People who do not trust anyone in life, most damaging to himself. No one can live without the support, trust and support. But still, now you know how to survive the betrayal of a loved one. Let your life be a man who is worthy of your trust at 100%. And remember that in any situation there is a way!
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